how is it for you? Do you wonder if it is the right thing to do?
2006-09-26 04:15:17 · 5 answers · asked by lisa l 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
If he is the right person for you, it will be a little easier and it is the right thing to do. You can never know how it will turn out though.
I waited for someone for three years. It was fairly easy for me as I had moved in with my mother to take care of her (she was very ill) so I had no intention of dating anyway. I worked all day and went home at night to be with my mom. I wrote letters and sent cute pictures to him. He got out. It turned out he had writing to others, including his ex-wife. We never really got back together. He did something (I don't know what) and was violated and went back in for six months. I did not hear from him during that time and haven't heard from him since.
I really do not regret it though. It was my choice. He wasn't the right person and it just didn't work out.
2006-09-26 07:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been here before. After being married to my husband, (who was not a nice person) for 6 years, he went to prison, and I hoped that this would be what would change him. He was in for 2.5 years and I visited him faithfully and was happy with him and what he was going through while he was in there. He was so nice and kind and even "found God". Less than a month after he was released he went back to his old ways full force. I was devistated. I did wonder if it was the right thing to do and I often thought while he was in there if this was my chance to get away from him. I waited because I wanted it to work out. I filed for divorce after he messed up the first time after he got out because I knew he hadn't changed...he only changed to make survival easier for him in prison.
2006-09-26 04:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny question for me to see today, my son just went to jail last nite, about 4am. He was on probation, so now I know he will probably go to prison. For me as a Mother is very hard, but I know for me it was the right thing to do, since he was beating on my husband, his father. We have given him many chances but when you start taking it out on someone else is not correct. I am already suffering, my heart aches, but the only thing i can do is pray for his safety. That is all one can do. This is something (jail or prison) that no one wants anyone to go through, but these days, it seems to be the norm. God bless you my dear and pray and God will give the serenity and peace you need at this time.
2006-09-26 04:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why? What do you think the outcome will be?
2006-09-26 04:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, i have a life.
2006-09-26 04:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by lady sixx 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋