We've gotten together late August, and we're still together.
2006-09-26 03:43:59 · 14 answers · asked by LaTangela M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to communicate with her on how your feeling. If she is going to disrepect herself and you by continuing to put the moves on your bf, you may need to distance your self from her.
2006-09-26 03:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let's look at this...lol. First off, if your boyfriend is dedicated to you, nothing she does will work. If not, you already have issues, and your so-called friend is just the agent that brings them to the surface. Same with your friend.
But we all know that girls love nothing more than trying to steal their friends' men, for whatever reason - probably usually insecurity. We also all know that most men are only as loyal as their options. Still, if you're lucky you can surround yourself with people you can trust and minimize this kind of thing.
2006-09-26 10:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the friend plain out "Whould you like to have relations with him?" Of course watch CLOSELY for "The Reaction." If the friend LAUGHS he/she has obsessesive thoughts about him. If the friend smiles they've thought about it often. If the friend looks even mildly bewildered, disgusted, or has a questioning look, then and only then do I think your safe safe, as in the friend won't push their limits, but tell the friend anyways to respectfully step back.
2006-09-26 10:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right about so-called friend because friends don't do that. First, you need to talk to her about it and tell her she needs to respect you and the fact that he is your boyfriend. You also need to express your concern to your boyfriend about it. He should also understand where you are coming from and say something to your 'so-called' friend. He needs to tell her to back off that he has a girlfriend.
2006-09-26 10:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he playing up to the attention from your friend? If so, dump them both...if not...warn her politely that she is overstepping the boundaries of your friendship. If the warning makes no change...eliminate her from your circle of friends until she can learn to respect the boundaries.
2006-09-26 10:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to set her straight "quickly". After that, get started on your man!
There's a reason why she thinks she can "push-up on him" he must be giving her some kind of signals that it's okay.
2006-09-26 10:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first kick her ***, and then tell her thats what a friend does when shefinds out the other is flirrting w/ her bf
2006-09-26 10:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by imasmartass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be jealous, lots of girsl think everyone is "after my man". But if she is and your man decides to go with her, then you should say good riddance, to him and her.
2006-09-26 10:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by vanman8u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to back off.
2006-09-26 10:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by rollerbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of your so called friend.
2006-09-26 10:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋