Confused on getting my tubes tied?

Question

I am pregnant for the second time, first time had a miscarriage. I am going to be 35 in 2 weeks, and some of my sister is telling me I should get my tubes tied because of my age. Which I have thought about. I am not sure if we will want more kids or not, my husband said he doesn't think I should do it. I just worry about finacial reasons. Any advice would be appreciated. Maybe I am just over hormonal, lol.

Answer 1

I do not think that you should get your tubes tied because you might want to have another child. Older women have children.. I am 36 yrs old and I am having my last child. I already have 3 children and now I am having my fourth.

People always have something to say about getting your tubes tied. Everyone is also telling me to get my tubes tied because they say that I will have 4 children, I should not have anymore. Everyone needs to mind there business.. focus on just you and your husband. It is both you guys decision no one else... (Good Luck)!!!!!

Answer 2

I was 23, unmarried with 3 children and we (my 3 daughters and myself) had our whole lives before us. I, did not, and do not regret having my tubes tide so young. Never did get married but now my daughters are grown and we enjoy each other. Because if I had not tied my tubes, there would definately be more than 3. This is a decision that you must make, not your baby daddy, not your sisters, not your friends, it is your body, which at 35 you should know. As far as age is concerned, men have children up until the time of death, what your body will be able to do in the upcoming years depends on how you treat it. Your life, your decision, trust your first thought, never second guess YOURSELF.

Answer 3

I'm 37 and had my baby at 36. I am too thinking about getting my tubes tied. I want another baby but he doesn't. You never have enough money for a baby. When bringing a baby into this world you always make ends meet. I believe nobody is financially ready for a baby. It's only up to you if you want to try for another one. Sorry about your miscarriage. If you have another one with this one then I would say yes do it. Maybe God is telling you something. Good luck and I wish you the best!

Answer 4

I had my tubes tied at 23. It was the best decision I had ever made. Prior to that, I had wanted to but been unable to due to the religious nature of the hospitals around my home. Finally, when my youngest son and I almost died during a 9-week early delivery, they finally agreed to tie them. It is a personal decision that you must make on your own and with your husband's input. It only matters what you and your husband want, not your sister or anyone else.

Answer 5

if you are questioning yourself then i think the time is not right yet. Ask your doctor. I had my 2nd child at age 33. i had a miscarriage between my two kids and another one after my 2nd child was born. at that time i thought it best to get my tubes tied. I was 36. The best decision i ever made. No Regrets Here!!!! I have a daughter and a son and a house that fits us just right. Financially also.

Answer 6

i don't be attentive to that lacking your era has something to do consisting of your tubes being tied. Your ovaries are liberating eggs in spite of no count if or no longer the egg could make it by. I had my tubes tied 20 months in the past and have not journey unusual classes in any respect. It must be hormonal and your tubes being tied does not influence your hormones. i'm notably effective! additionally... that is totally uncommon to your tubes to heal themselves, whether I nonetheless hassle approximately that!

Answer 7

if i were u and at that age i would get my tubes tied cuz do u really wanna b 50 when u baby is 15? plus tha possibilities of having a special needs child and tha toll it would take cuz its a lot of hard wrk to care 4 a child with special needs and like i said at an age where ur not gettin n e youngr isnt most of all fair to that child or u either. i say dnt b selfish and enjoy ur sex life with knowing u wont get pregnant and no condoms! and if ur worrying bout financial reasons the answer is rite n front of u. and ur husband isnt gonna b pregnant. better yet hav him get snipped, they only r handicapped 4 bout a day. i had my ex husband get snipped ;>

Answer 8

I had my tubes tied, cut, and burned after I had my second child. I am 29 and my husband and I both wish we never had them tied. Our kids are 4 and 2 and as they grow more and more we miss the baby stage so much. I enjoy my kids every day but do miss that snuggly infant stage. I miss smelling their baby breath and when they curl up tight when you pick them up in the morning. think of it long and hard. once you do it there is no going back. lol and good luck

Answer 9

Don't worry about what your sister thinks. This is about you. You need to discuss this with your husband and only your husband. Decide what both of you are comfortable with and go with it. There is all sorts of help available if finances are a concern - like WIC - women and infant care that helps offset formula, juice cereal etc until the child is 5. If you like children then hold off, especially if your husband would like a family. But if both of you choose to not have a bigger family then do what is right for you. Most of all just communicate with him.

Answer 10

I wouldn't suggest that you get your tubes tied. I had mine tied because my husband didn't want anymore children. We are no longer together and now I'm regretting my decision.
If I were you I would wait until after your baby is older and you know for sure that you don't want anymore kids.