before marriage a couple plan on 2 children together (he already has 2 and says that won't hinder their plans) the wife ends up pregnant sooner than the husband would like. he has been resentful toward her and is now going to have a vasectomy. they are a christian family but the husband changed his mind about a lot of things AFTER getting married. Is it fair for the husband to cut off the wife's rights to have more children as they originally agreed on? The wife prayed for at least 2 children a long time ago but is now being robbed of this by her own husband. do you think God is taking all of this into account and will still bless her or is it a done deal since her husband wants to stop at having only this one child with her?
2006-09-26 03:14:53 · 8 answers · asked by Skypride 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
she must have 3 children now his 2 are hers as well but we never know what is in Gods plan she may still have another child later
2006-09-26 03:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The husband has made a decision about whether he will father any more children; he has not cut off his wife's rights to have more children. Severing his vas tubes doesn't affect the physiology of his wife. Of course, this means that she's well within her rights to choose not to be his wife anymore if she has decided that having intact vas tubes is of great importance.
Vasectomys are pretty much done deals. It's quite unlikely there will ever be any "Seed" in his "Juice" ever again, so it's safe to assume that this man will never again be a father.
2006-09-26 03:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by digitalquirk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends upon what the laws rules and mores of the state in which the couple resides. In the state I reside in if a husband wants a vasectomy the wife has to sign a form of agreement or consent. otherwise the operation can not legally be performed.
2006-09-26 03:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make him want children but you can make him pay for lying to her. Be slick and put the condom on him as if you want the same thing but first make sure you pop a hole in it. That'll teach the lying sack of manure. He is selfish to make a promise to her especially knowing how important it is to her. He needs to be decieved just like he did the decieving. Otherwise cheat on him and get pregnant and say it is his. lol just kidding about the last part. But seriously he is a jerk!
2006-09-26 03:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shucks
He is human and it is his life as well. There are PLENTY of children around the world that can be adopted. If may not be fair but life isn't fair anyway
2006-09-26 03:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by ηιgнт ѕтαя 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why women need equal rights. Men always figure they are the boss and the women should do as told.
2006-09-26 03:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a done deal.
And how do you know this isn't part of God's Plan?
2006-09-26 03:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christian?
Change your ways or change your name!
2006-09-26 03:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Linn E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋