Lets see...I really don't know how to explain this, but I will try. My boyfriend has a thing for Asians...and I think it is because they are so tiny. But newayz he works out all of the time and has a really nice body..and on his myspace he has a lot of skinny, model looking girls. Well newayz it makes me feel pressure to lose weight because I'm not skinny..but I was basically just wanting some info on how to lose weight fast because I don't want my boyfriend to leave me for someone skinny and better than me..if you don't understand this I'm sorry. Welp thanks for suggestions and comments.
2006-09-26 03:10:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
humm... newsflash..... if you aren't asian it wont matter how much weight you lose...... dump him....
2006-09-26 03:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He is YOUR boyfriend. So apparently all he likes isn't just Asian girls. Some people(men and women) have what we Asians call "yellow fever". They admire how we look because we are different. It doesn't necessarily mean he wants to be with an Asian girl. You being bigger is not what is going to push him away, it is your insecurity and lack of confidence that will. Even if you get model thin, you can never make yourself Asian. Be happy with who you are. Like for myself, I think black men are gorgeous, however, my husband is Chinese. Could I have married a black man, sure. But just because I like how they look doesn't mean I would ever leave my husband for them or anyone else for that matter. Love is about more than looks, or it should be.
2006-09-26 03:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to lose weight because he looks at skinny girls and you think hes going to leave you for them,,then hes no good to begin with. I dont think thats the case at all though. He obviously loves you for the person you are. My man looks at asian girls as well....but they are not all skinny. I think you have a self esteem issue here. Men are just very visual to begin with,,,doenst mean he loves you any less. I think you trying to be someone you are not,,is not going to be a good thing for you.
2006-09-26 03:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suppose that you are very young girl and me being a little older ;) can tell you that appearance is very tricky thing...you can be beautiful and skinny but have no boyfriend and reverse...it¸s completeness that counts...smile ,eyes,humor,or "something" different, that is what makes you special to someone.There is always someone who is better than you, but that " something" keeps your partner faithful to you...Believe me with age, some personal standards changes and some things look better now than before...You just need to be sure in yourself and except yourself the way you are !
2006-09-26 03:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that they r skinny silly it because they r EXOTIC ,( i married 2 an asian girl) lose weight cuz u want 2 not cuz u feel he wants it, unless he tells u that flat out think about u must be doing something right if he is still with u,don't beat ur self up women all have that problem its called insecurityitis.
2006-09-26 06:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, so many problems here.
First, if he leaves you due to weight issues, he's not worth it.
Second, some guys have an affinity for certain ethnic groups. I am also attracted to Asians. I happened to marry a Chinese woman.
You may just want to prepare in letting this one go. Sorry...it may not be that you are chubby or anything, it's just that he may not be physically attracted to you.
2006-09-26 03:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by powhound 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LESS FOOD MORE ACTIVITY!!!, Oh and dont just stop eating cause that is called a disease. Oh and please if you have that lil trust in your BF then sorry but thats not a healthy relationship... and if he has all that on his MYSPACE then you know thats sad, keep ya head up...
2006-09-26 03:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has something called 'yellow fever'. They generally think that asian girls are more desirable, exotic, and smaller meaning probably more 'tighter'.
2006-09-26 03:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by Wim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To lose weight fast, limit your carb intake to 60 a day. Some Asian chicks are hot though.
2006-09-26 03:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
IF YOU WANT TO LOSE A FEW POUNDS....WHY DON'T YOU'LL WORK OUT WITH EACH OTHER SOMETIME....WHILE HE IS AT THE GYM WHAT ARE YOU DOING? LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU ARE GOING ON A DIET. (see what he says) MAKE HIM YOUR TRAINER AND NUTRITIONIST....
2006-09-26 03:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by fatiegurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but i totally agree with your boyfriend skinny asian girls are the hottest! and the best in bed.
2006-09-26 03:14:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋