I am quite ugly and i'm not a virgin out of choice. I am short, red hair, freckles, dandruff, back and chest hair (covering most of my torso), not muscly, not well 'equipped'. I dont see what I could really offer a girl that someone else couldnt. The few girls i have gotten close with were generally drunk, and have been extremely embarassed to see me afterwards, gettin **** from their friends for just kissing me. I am shy and have an ever declining confidence, and just feel that I could do so much more if i had a different body and mind. Life has so much to offer, but i do not feel capable. Can someone please suggest something?
2006-09-26 03:09:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to vegas and get a hooker...now
2006-09-26 03:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic! It won't resolve the problem!
1. red hair and freckles aren't so bad! You were born with them, and there are lots of girls too, who have them! I have freckels too, not too many, but my husband likes them:)
2. in order to resolve the hair problem, go to a cosmetician
3. to put on some muscle, do some exercise! Ask a fitness trainer!
4. Dandruff: use anti dandruff shampoo! But buy it from the drugstore, not from the supermarket! Those are not so good. In the drugstore you might spend more money, but they can indicate you a product that suits you.
4.Well equiped...well, just that you know, it is not the ONLY thing girls want from a boy! And if you show self confidence, and you do everything else good, if you are tender...you have great chances!
5.If you don't do anything about it, your life won't change.Take your destiny into your own hands, and try a change in your life!
If you don't, it means that you accept your situation, and your self confidence will further decline.
Just that you know, "I can't" doesn't exist! It only exists "I don't want to!"
SO COURAGE! I KNOW IT'S NOT EASY! BUT LIFE HAS TO OFFER YOU GREAT THINGS TOO! BUT NOTHING IS FOR FREE! YOU HAVE TO DO SMTH ABOUT IT.
Good luck!
2006-09-26 03:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all work on yourself. I was a skinny, nerdy 21 year old and I began lifting weights. I am now 205 pounds of muscle. I've been married for many years and have 3 kids. get a good haircut, get some dandruff shampoo, wax your back, and get some self confidence. try weight lifting and really stick with it. you would be shocked at what a change that can make in your looks and confidence. you'll be able to tell yourself "that guy may be a lot better looking than me, but I could so kick his butt". if the virginity thing is such a huge issue to you right now....save your money and go to nevada, get yourself a prostitute and bingo bango..you won't be a virgin anymore.
2006-09-26 03:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by stlouisrams1974 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi i know how you feel, but you don't have to take it out on yourself, God didn't make anyone ugly, you are a beauty in his sight don't forget that. i think that, if you can't fit in with your friends you should try someone-else, his name is Jesus, he will be your friend when you need one, so all you have to do is give over your body, soul and mind to him and he will do the rest.
2006-09-26 03:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sugar and spice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the gym can be a big help for you......try to be yourself you say you are ugly but you never now there is always somebody designed for you.....just don't be so shy....... a lot of woman likes ugly guys....look beyonce is beutiful....dont tellme his boyfriend is a good lookin guy.........hello???
2006-09-26 03:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude relax the body just look for a hoker or nunny
2006-09-26 04:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by grim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont approach girls who are out of your league. I go for someone slightly less attractive than me, I think im pretty and my boyfriend is good-lookin but he hairy so it works! lol
2006-09-26 03:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by ♥RN♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I quote the great philosopher Tyler Durden "Self improvement is masturbation."
2006-09-26 03:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by wade b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying u will find someone . theres someone out there for everyone.
2006-09-26 03:13:49 · answer #9 · answered by magicalbud003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to shave and take care of your face
2006-09-26 03:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by ##$SoulStryker$## 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋