i have this guy whom i really like and we`ve known each other for long but never had the chance to date `cos maybe he wasnt sure of himself then or something. now fate has brought us together somehow. he has finally spoken up and atimes he wishes we had hooked up a long time ago. he even admits it was `cos of his corwardness. he is good u know. on the bed, nice to me and okay you know... just great to be with and i`m thankful fate did this one favour of bringing back someone i really liked back to me. i thank God everyday. well well..... u might be wonderin` if all along has been nice, why am i writing dis right? well, the problem here is dat this my guy here is kinda..... do i say occupied with things,it might be his cluster of friends. i hate to say dis, but i think he dosen`t have much time for me and i wonder why he wooed me in the first place. is he immature or wot? he spends most of the time wit his friends. atimes i accuse him of this and even call him a gay which he laughs off
2006-09-26 03:08:07 · 7 answers · asked by books 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are the immature one.
2006-09-26 03:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can't spend some quality time with you, then he doesn't think highly of you. He's taking you for granted and would rather spend time with his friends (he has mor fun with them). Stop spending so much time with him and start making your own friends - don't be so dependent on him. Have him pursue you, dress up sexy more often but don't hang out with him. Go out and have some fun. If he starts to spend some more time with you thats cool. It you go out w/o him - you might find someone alot better.
2006-09-26 10:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ron G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think your boyfriend is gay? How old is he anyway? but young men also love to hang out with members of their sex too. it doesnt make them gays or immature. it really depends to what degree or extents is his pre-occupation with his so called gang or group.i think it is quite normal and acts as a balance for him, time spent with you and time spent with his friends. if you are so worried, speak to him about it.
2006-09-26 10:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by queen idia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is no chemistry or sparks anymore ? In my opinion, he probably does'nt know how to have fun anymore because if he cared , "your guy" would want you to be happy.
2006-09-26 10:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by CindayYEAHYYYY 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can't tell...
Why do you worry so much?
You share his immaturity.
2006-09-26 10:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Carlos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U might be right.But sit down with him and explain its not funny.
2006-09-26 10:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
All men are immature....why even ask....it's in the DNA.
2006-09-26 10:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋