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I hate smokers...smoke gives me a headache yet MY MOTHER still smokes around me, in my car when i say no, my house, i hate it....my wishes should be respected dont you think??? and i dont want to smell of smoke either

2006-09-26 03:02:30 · 9 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Family & Relationships Family

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I agree. I can smell a smoker a mile away.

2006-09-26 04:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by RayRay 5 · 0 0

Unfortunately, I am a smoker, but I do respect you in this question on the part about your house, your car, and around you. I at least have enough respect, to take my habit around those who it doesn't bother or at least wait until I am out of the car, or go outside...However, I do not respect your comment, "I hate smokers" Do ya hate your mom for something she does, that I'm sure she is not proud of. Good luck, take care, and don't be a hater!

2006-09-26 04:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by me 3 · 0 0

Yeah I think you're right. I work in a hotel, sometimes on the bar and my boss has told me I am allowed to refuse people the right to smoke at the bar, I can ask them to sit down to do it. Even though, some people get really angry if I politely ask them to not smke at the bar. Its rude, and I hate going home smelling of smoke! Im with you 100% on this one! x

2006-09-26 03:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I do not like smoking either but I thing if I F'ed you in a room full of smoke, I think I could make you like it. We could make some smoke of our own and make everyone smell it.

2006-09-26 03:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ask her not to smoke around you and if she does not respectyour wishes, do not let her in your car or your house and eventually she will get the message...itis what i had to do with my own mother...she now goes outside to smoke an di don't feel bad about it because for years and years i had to inhale the second hand smoke from her cancer sticks...

2006-09-26 03:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by misfit 3 · 0 0

I guess you need to tell her, if she must smoke, she needs to do it outside. NOT in YOUR car.......NOT in YOUR home.
In her home and car, she has the perfect right. Hopefully she'll understand where you're coming from. But will tell ya it's a tough addiction and not easy to conquer. Maybe you can let her know that you love her, and ask her how you can help her to quit.

2006-09-26 03:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0 0

She owns the house and pays the bills, she gets to smoke in it.

If you don't like it, get a job and move out and support yourself.

2006-09-26 03:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0 0

I totally agree! If she is in your car and your home she needs to respect you or get out!

2006-09-26 03:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0 0

im with you 3000 percent...
why dont you try smoking infront of your mom...
you know..its either you fight em..if you cant you join em..

maybe she's see how it is when her daughters smoking..

2006-09-26 03:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by kim_stolz 3 · 0 0

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