2006-09-26 03:00:13 · 11 answers · asked by sharma h 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Don't impose any of your dreams on him.Its not important for him to be a topper too.Just give him a normal childhood.
2006-09-26 03:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by live_let.live 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone in this world is gifted with some talent, your son may or may not top the class but he may have a real good talent try to make him the person of his choice if he can make you proud, did you follow the track of your dad completely?? I know you didn't then why expect the same out of your son, remember to give time to your son and hone his skills in whatever talent he has.
2006-09-26 03:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Goodguy 4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't be disappointed if he isn't. He is an individual and though he's you son, he might not be as "smart" as you are/were. Help him with his studies and try to motivate him, but please don't push him and make him feel as if he doesn't reach the same level as you, that he is disappointing you. Let him know that you hope that he will do his best and you will be proud of him no matter how he does. Never put pressure on him or you will find that he will resent you later. Let him be who and what he is and love him just the same.
I know that you want him to be top of his class, but don't push, hate or show disappointment, Please! Let him grow up a normal well adjusted man.
2006-09-26 03:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by Dale 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please sit with him daily for an hour at least, correct his note books, help him in solving problems.If you dint get time on any day you please request your wife or parent.When a class teacher is correcting 200 books in a week, cant we correct 1 to 6 subjects?I did it. My son became an asset for me.He stood university first in engineering and now earning one lac's per month. I am now not afraid of unforeseen medical expenditure.
2006-09-26 19:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by BHARANI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sell ur house, Buy a smaller one, Sell your fancy cars and go and live in a poor neighbourhood. Take ur son to beg on the streets for a day or two.Oh my god ,he will realize he better work hard for it all, otherwose this is what his life will be.
Adios amigo
2006-09-26 03:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading your question, I'm sure you're either lying about being top at any school, or you got to school on the red bus.
2006-09-26 03:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by ***&&*** 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let it come to him his own way make sure you read to him and if his is top of class he is don't pressure him that would be a sur way for him to regress
2006-09-26 03:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by buffywalnuts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello sir....all the fingers of same hand are not of similar length..
i mean..though we have five fingers they are not of similar length..
and all the five fingers belong to our single hand...in the same manner...u may be intelligent...u may be topper..but dont expect
the same from ur children..they may have their own interests..
no two fellows are similar..world is a mixture of variety of people..
and we have to accept them as they are..dont get disturbed with all these thoughts sir..wat i suggest is dont force or frighten him..
let him be as he wishes to be...accept him as he is..
he will definitelt hav a bright future if u encourage him in wat ever field he is interested....
2006-09-26 03:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help and inspire him but don;t push him hard.Also don;t compare ,for you may be in for a shock and he may develop inferiority complex.
2006-09-26 03:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by Bipin mishra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋