some dayz he will show his feeling other dayz he won't even kiss me .. When we walk any where like subway and other thing's he won't hold my hand.. Then there dayz he wont come home 3-4 dayz latter should i be thinkin there something up .. And i heared from his brother that he was doing some really bad drugs like crack... so does he really care?????
2006-09-26 02:54:39 · 12 answers · asked by ManImSadINeedAHug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no he doesnt care, its quite obvious
2006-09-26 02:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just playing you. He knows that you love him and that you're gonna do everything you can to keep your relationship above water, so in his mindset, he can treat you like trash and you'll still keep coming back to him. I'd say his brother is probably right about the drugs too. During those three or four days where he's out somewhere: if you don't know where he's at, chances are the things that he's doing there aren't very good.
Honestly; you may love him, but I think you should call it off. I told this to another asker: A man's spouse or potential spouse is first-priority. A drug is a dishonorable and deadly addiction, while a woman is a commitment and a fulfillment of life. I don't think he cares for you the way you want him to. And you're better off trying to find someone else who can develop that care from scratch, rather than waiting for your current boyfriend to change his ways and develop that care for you under his drug addiction. Good luck.
2006-09-26 10:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing drugs (like crack) then he is a lost cause. Being around someone like that only allows you to be put in a situation where you will get into it as well.
If he is doing a drug that hardcore, he doesn't care about you...he only cares about destroying his own life...actually, I should not say that...he might care, but the drugs he is using are way too powerful for him to really want to care. When you are doing drugs like crack, that is all you are consumed by. It's not like pot...once you do it once, and you get hooked on it...the only thing that will stop it is hitting rock bottom.
It's a sad thing for you to go through, but the best thing you can do is let him figure it out for himself...the more you try to stop him, the worse it will probably get. The drugs have messed up his mind, and you need to get out of there.
2006-09-26 09:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by brianwerner1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may care for you, but if he's doing drugs he loves his fix more right now. If you love him and you think you have a future with him, the best thing that you can do is to help him get off the drugs. If he won't choose you over the drugs, you need to move on.
2006-09-26 09:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing crack, then Why would you want to be with him anyway? Why do we as women feel like we have to settle for jailbirds or crack addicts? Why would you want to subject yourself to that kind of abuse. You are sitting at your computer wondering if this guy loves you. Are you hurting, are you sad, are you afraid that he doesn't? Then you already know the answer. Love does not hurt, love is not scary, love never have you wondering about wheather or not it exist. You know when you are loved and my guess is that you already know that you are not loved. Move on, find who you want to be and then you will attract your perfect match. LOVE is wonderful when you have someone who LOVES you to share it with. Take care.
2006-09-26 10:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! He cares for himself.
Not calling or checking in aft 3-4 days? He doesn't care if you worry.
Won't hold your hand? He doesn't care how you feel.
You aren't that impt to him, from what you've said.... so save your emotions for someone who thinks you're impt enough. Don't settle for this lousy fella!
2006-09-26 09:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but yes u should be curious about him, i mean if he doesnt show up for 3-4 days thats bad. and if his own brother is tellin you hes doin drugs then its best to try to move on.
2006-09-26 10:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by big guy 25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he don't care the only thing he cares about is either his lover or his drugs whichever get out now.. sounds like he puts the L in loser
2006-09-26 09:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by cottoncandie1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you have to ASK if he loves you, there's something wrong already. If a man loves you, he'll show it no matter who's around. Don't throw your life away on someone who doesn't make you feel good...trust me. Been there.
Good Luck!! = )
2006-09-26 09:57:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he does not care he even embaresed of even showing that your together. Plus you should ask him wats his deal if he still wants to be wit u. lol .
2006-09-26 10:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by Q? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems a confused scientist to me. leave him. he ruined his life already as he takes drugs. y r u ruining yours with him. leave him with his drugs n move on.
2006-09-26 10:02:21 · answer #11 · answered by ams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋