No matter how hard you try, when you're the other man/woman in a relationship there comes atime when you believe or hope that the existing relationship will finish and you'll get the guy/girl to yourself. Currently faced with no chance of this happening, yet always being told if things were diff, there wouldn't be the relationship to be a third person in., yet they won't leave their partner. So when its obvious that nothing will change why keep hoping/believing/thinking it will?
2006-09-26 02:49:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every relationship is different. You can't help falling in love and sometimes it is painful for everyone concerned. I have been in love with someone I couldn't be with and he was in love with me, We had to accept it. there was no point in trying to put pressure on anyone. However I am a great believer in 'what will be will be' If it is meant to happen .... we will be together eventually.
2006-09-26 04:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by ragdoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because , the man/woman will not leave the person they are with just because of a flig or a good romp in the bed.. they cheat cuz the feel that they are lacking excitment in their life and they knw that if they leave their partner for the "fling" they will just as well lose the excitment in that relationship 2.
now i`m guessing this is abt u or maybe a friend but either ways wat evedence do u have that this person will be faithful 2 u wen he wasnt even faithful to his or her partner.wat if they have kids? are u willing to leave the rest of ur life hated by the kids and other family members?? and lets say u do have kids with this person u gonna isolate them cuz of ur mistakes and that their family doesnt like them?
and it is also said that a relation that start out as affairs and go on to marriage 9/10 always end in divorce. honey why brake up a home it maynot be happy but it is a home their home find ur own. there are plenty of ppl in the world and there is exactly one single person out their who is just waiting for u, dont keep him waiting.
2006-09-26 10:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by baby gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy - if someone is stupid enough to get involved with an attached person then they're stupid enough to believe that that person will leave their partner for their bit on the side.
"the other person" makes it SO bloody easy for people to cheat - it disgusts me. Knowing that that person leaves you to go home and sleep with their official partner - and then when they feel like extra marital sex or whatever - just calls up the bit and gets it.
2006-09-26 09:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we are eternally optimistic that this time this person will be 'the right one', and they just made an error of judgement when they married or hooked up with their current partner.
However this is a load of rubbish as if they are capable of chesting on one person they are capable of cheating on you, as a general rule.
2006-09-26 09:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by honeypot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just like at it as a game and the prize is to get the person from their husbend or wife. Or the cheater sees it as a game to, "I CAN HAVE MY CAKE N EAT IT TO"
2006-09-26 10:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by funoburgmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well they cant love the one their with or they are not getting what they want in a relationship thats why they would look elsewhere to make up for what they dont get in a relationship
2006-09-26 11:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times it is the best they can do. Be happy to be the third and let them be together too.
2006-09-26 09:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cheat in a relationship it could mean that something's wrong or there's something you don't feel that comfortable with or you're missing something in that relationship, e.g. good sex!???!
2006-09-26 10:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by SittingBull 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get involved with someone who is already in a relationship.
2006-09-26 10:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess when someone is in love, they do dumb things and are willing to believe anything..
2006-09-26 10:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by Desert Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋