i have a problem...im a sex-aholic!!!i flirt at work, go home with a guy and have (protected) sex with him. then i never see the guy again!!! I NEED HELP!!!!
2006-09-26 02:44:49 · 35 answers · asked by tweety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
has anyone ever told you that you are a whore? just wondering...
2006-09-26 02:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by elliemae 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
:) Never thought a girl would be so brave to admit it out in the open. Hats off to you.
So you've got a high libido/sexual drive. So you're a legendary nymph. I guess in your past, like all the others, one or 2 guys fell in love with you after one night or treated you in such a way as to make you feel uncomfortable; or you simply didn't give a **** and just didn't want to see their face again.
I'm a guy and needs to have sex and make love every single day. I met a girl who's the same. We **** like rabbits. Best thing is, we understand each other's need. Nope we're not fbuddies. We just can't seem to stay away from each other. Been 2 weeks so far. We have an attachment towards each other. We're enjoying sex every single day. Trying out new stuffs, positions, toys, concepts, moods, food, hot, cold, hanging, cuffed, endless list...
If you didn't understand why I went bla bla bla with my sex life that's because your missing the point. Find someone, like your twin, a guy, who's the same as you towards sex. Have sex regularly with this one guy. EXPLORE. Fulfill some fantasies. Have some fun, experiment. This will calm down your libido just a bit. And then you'll notice that you don't want to have sex with different guys like you used to. Cuz you just found out that getting to know someone sexually allows you to find the little ways that turn you on even more.
I am assuming here so forgive me as u've left me no details. Despite the fact that you like a variety of men and loves to catch them one at a time, you can have a combination of having sex with just one guy, while at the same time having sex with other guys.
Guaranteed you're state of mind will change...for the better.
Oh by the way, it's so cool to have a high libido. I keep smiling when I hear ppl talking about getting tired and don't wanna have sex or make love.
So look for that someone. If he's the yin, you're the yang. If he's toast, then you're the butter. Not love, but sexual understanding.
Ciao, sionara, take care, khoda hafez, alvida, bye bye
2006-09-26 03:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by R. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are are telling the truth here I would ask yourself what would be wrong with finding one man and having sex every night.
If your answer would be it would be too boring then you need to know you have a real problem. If you just love sex for the sake of it and did not have a need to have many men then you are most men's dream come true.
If the only thrill you have in sex is because it is a different guy.....yes you do need help. Until you fix that the chances of you ever getting married to one guy are slim to none.
Assuming you are really a woman and are telling the truth.
2006-09-26 02:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't. Guys do that sort of thing all the time. Women don't, because they're worried about getting a reputation, but that doesn't seem to bother you, which is great, because it shouldn't.
You want the sex, but not the hassles of a commitment or relationship with them. When you are ready to settle down, it will come of its own accord, but until then, live it up!
I once knew a girl that was very much like you. She always said that in the distant future, if she, doing what she does, and another woman, who didn't do what she does, are sitting on the front porch together in their rocking chairs; I'd always be able to tell which one was her, because she'd be the one with the smile on her face.
2006-09-26 02:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's OK if you are having a guy fulfill a sexual need for you once in awhile, but if it becomes a constant thing in your life you need to find out why - seems like you're using sex to fill some kind of emotional need - starting a relationship with sex almost never works out - so if it's a normal relationship you're looking for, try to show some restraint & get to know the guy first before you jump in bed - you'll probably start feeling better about yourself and guys will ultimately have more respect for you & if that doesn't work there's always therapy.
2006-09-26 02:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say so. You put this image to guys that you are very easy. That's not something you want every guy to know cuz one day you will fall hard for one of them and then where will you be. Alone and miserable. As for always wanting sex get toys. Don't sleep with pretty much every guy you meet. Find professional help if you can't get this under control.
2006-09-26 02:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Lady C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself why you do this. Do you equate sex with nothing but a good time. Do you think of it that for that moment someone cares about you? You can have one partner and have an awesome sex life - really.
2006-09-26 02:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was the performance issue? Or then again "reputation" may somehow play a role! Either way you need to slow down , take a breath, and find a new direction in life!
2006-09-26 02:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to be a sex-aholic, just ***** with one guy though. condoms only protect 99% there's still that 1%.
2006-09-26 02:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by Nic Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a flooze!!!! Thats the reason why guys never call you back, they know they can do you, and leave you. Does sex mean anything to you anymore? Or is just an addiction?
2006-09-26 02:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too upset about it, women have one night stands all the time...
If the incident made you uncomfortable, just remember that feeling the next time you are in a situation where a guy you just met wants to come over.
2006-09-26 02:47:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋