Its only been a month and the pain is still there like it was yesterday.
2006-09-26 02:42:24 · 11 answers · asked by pacific_2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She even started dating somebody a day after she broke up with me.
2006-09-26 03:33:34 · update #1
Time.
I know its corny but really you cant hurry these things along. You'll be over it when you're over it and you cant push yourself into thinking you're over it or you're not fooling anyone except yourself.
Just give yourself time and space to grieve. Its hard losing someone. Just stay strong, take one day at a time and I wish you all the best
2006-09-26 02:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't actually get "over" it, you will get through it though. I have been there, so I do know what you're feeling right now. I'll tell you something that a friend of mine suggested, and it eventually worked. I went through a lot of different emotions when we broke up, I even tried to "hate" this person....didn't work though. Finally, I decided to take all of the "good" memories, and put them in a "memory bank." Yeah, you have to actually "picture" this in your mind. Then when you start to feel upset or sad, you just remember that at least you know how to love, and you were loved. There are people in this world who never have, and never will be loved. And because you've "known" love, you will have it again....I promise.
Hey, try this method, it works. Good luck, & God bless.
2006-09-26 02:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got over a 12 year marriage. It takes time. Friends help a lot. Stay busy. It is an adjustment, but time will heal the pain. Now when I look back, I only remember the good times.
2006-09-26 02:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to take time to get over someone you loved. You'll probably always think about then now and then, but in the future the pain won't be as deep. I would focus on yourself right now- pursue a hobby, or catch up with old friends (and ummm don't talk about your ex).
2006-09-26 02:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by louisvuittonchild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's gonna take a while. You loved this person for two years and it won't stop in just a month (if you truly loved them anyway). Don't push yourself to get over them and don't feel bad for still hurting. Everyone heals at different paces. It took me almost two years to get over my ex-husband (together for 6 years w/ children) but I did. You will too. Don't be so hard on yourself. It will eventually hurt less and go away.
2006-09-26 02:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me it will take time to get over it. But go out and do something nice for yourself. There is a reason tht it didn't work out. You need to forget about the pass and move on. It just wasn't meant to be. There is the right someone out there for you.
2006-09-26 02:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by JUSTME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time... it's the only thing that works. I've been in love for four years and I have a new boyfriend and everything, but every time i see him, that s.hit still hurts. The only thing that'll work is time.
2006-09-26 02:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Nic Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By running amuck with a pointy stick at your local Walmart.
2006-09-26 02:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by TheGroove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, i've got faith some women individuals seem at some fans extra of a chum or an "asexual" better half. i exploit asexual with the aid of fact it additionally has the meaning of lacking activity in or choose of intercourse. especially situations it brought about by ability of hormones, or their interpersonal dating between the two. while you're actually not unquestionably sexually aroused by ability of him or any guy for that count, it could have something to do consisting of your hormones or organic libido. yet once you finally end up aroused by ability of alternative men, women individuals, etc., then it could purely be your dating with him, sexually. you may try distinctive sexual acts with him, something which you're delicate with yet no longer your prevalent intercourse act. in case you are attempting sexual experimentation consisting of your better half, you may locate it adventurous, for this reason extra thrilling and arousing. If this does not help, you may no longer be bodily drawn to him, and your rationalization for charm might completely characteristic on your emotional desires for his presence or conversations. some human beings experience they are in love with others, yet don't experience a sexual urge or any aspirations to have intercourse. especially situations you would be with somebody and characteristic a great deal of love and a astonishing dating yet no longer have that preliminary sexual charm. If that is been 2 years, have been you sexually aroused by ability of him interior the early ranges of the dating? additionally, if there are hardships on your lives, like financial issues as an occasion, which could placed an significant quantity of rigidity on your sexual dating and can deter your act of having intercourse consisting of your better half. in case you have him on your suggestions-set as no longer being the protector or "bread winner" of the family participants, you have gotten subconsciously placed him in a type with the aid of fact the non-alpha male and which could bring about no longer feeling the sexual desiring you will possibly have for him. This additionally happens in numerous distinctive species of animals, etc. while the alpha male loses hispersistent to be triumphant/triumph over/carry out, in many situations situations the female is truthfully no longer allured or experience a feeling of disempowerment in direction of them.
2016-10-18 00:10:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby and go out with friends.
2006-09-26 02:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋