Ive been with with my hubby for 4yrs 3 as my bf n i as my hubby ive never slept with another man i just wonder how it would be to be with another man
2006-09-26 02:34:25 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are married, and when you got married you took vows. I say honor those vows and be truthful to your husband. I do not believe in sleeping with others when married. Also if you do and your husband finds out it would be terms for a divorce. Because you would have committed adultery. I say love your husband and try new things in your relationship with him. Try lingerie, role playing, toys etc this will put some spice in yours and his relationship. Good luck and make the right choice
2006-09-26 02:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by baby j 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should have thought about this BEFORE you got married! Unless you two have an open marriage you are stuck. People in your position always wonder what someone else would be like. . however. . . . . you usually are very disappointed eventually after the newness and naughtyness of it wears off! You could end up ruining your marriage over your horniness. However. . . .being the sex god that I am. . . I must tell you that it is possible your husband is lame in the sack and you are missing out on the amazing endless orgasms a sex god like me can lavish a woman with! I found the love of my life after she got divorced from her first husband and she really wasn't into sex that much early on. She said she never really enjoyed sex with her first husband. I however. . .was able to get her to try new things and become comfortable and confident in the ways of amore! Maybe it is the fact that we are soul mates. . maybe it is the fact that I am very educated and skilled in the art of pleasing a woman, maybe it is the fact that I am very large, but most likely it is a combination of all of these. My lady has been with only a couple men whereas I have been with many women. . . (Many more than she knows) . . however. . . the sex with her is the best I've ever had and I have no desire to get it elswhere! We ARE soulmates and this has a lot to do with it? You need to ask yourself WHY you are so intrigued by sex with someone else? Is it because your husband had other partners before you and you feel you didn't get your share? Just be willing to deal with the ramifications of what you do. Remember . . you could also just try spicing things up with your husband.. different positions, role playing, doing it in the park, movie theater, car, kitchen, bathroom, changing room at a store, try it in the butt and etc. Good luck and think before you act. P.S. if you decide to do it with another man. . . get in touch with me. . HA HA HA HAHA!
2006-09-26 02:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh Miss Candy. You've been with this guy for a long time. The thought of being with someone else must mean that the intimacy in your marriage has faded. Talk to your hubby before you do anything drastic. Because chances are that you love this guy seeing as how you've been with him this long. Is it worth it to throw away 4 years of a relationship for a chance at exploring another man? Think about it...this has the possibility of being pretty risky.
2006-09-26 02:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by slychick852002 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
candy u know what girl this is really good question,,and i'm going to tell u y,,,i been with my husband 16 1/2 years 2 of those years he was my boyfriend,,,i've never been with another man before but i have to tell the truth i tried like a year ago and about 2 months ago ,,the 2 times tried girl ,,,lol,,,did not work out,,my guilt and i was just just just ahhhhhhhhhhhhh,, i don't know i guess i would say just uncomfortable or just feeling bad about trying,,but girl guess what it did made me do ,,it made me come home and **** the hell out of him real good,,,i'm not sure y but it really made hot,,both times,,,so maybe the 3 rd time i will succeed,,,lmao,,,,,but for real when u see how bad people is passing these aids around like crazy in the state i'm in(wisconsin),,u want to only have 1 sex partner,,,u have 2 many young people dieing of aids here,,,teenagers ,,,,the teenagers passing that **** around girl,,,for real no lie,,,i know u had to hear about the 11 old here in mil, wi. 20 boys had sex with her,,come to find out she was born with aids,,it made state news,,,that's not even 5 min. away from me,,u can look it up on the internet ,,about 2 weeks ago,,,,it ain't the first nor second time this done happen in milwaukee,,,aids is really really bad here,,,,girl if u can get in touch with me ok we can talk more
2006-09-26 03:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you each others first, or did your husband have 'relations' before he met you?
Have you spoke to him about your curiosity?
Sex is sex, if your worried about whether or not your missing out on something different, men are all the same in bed, before you go looking around first or you may already have someone in mind? maybe you can try using your imagination, try talking about what you may want to do different, try new stuff. And take it from someone with a promiscuous past, you are not going to find anymore than what you already have.
If your still curious about it, be sure you are willing to accept the consequences, remember you are married now, how would you feel if he wanted to sleep with someone else just to see how it is?
Good Luck, hope this helps.
2006-09-26 02:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by madamjenn40 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have wondered all this BEFORE you got married. To be married is to forsake all others! If you truly feel like you want another man, get a divorce. Do you love your husband? Is another man and a few minutes with him worth ruining your marriage over?
2006-09-26 02:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What r u thinking!!!!! Do u love ur husband??
It doesn't matter if he is the only 1 u have been with sexually.......i have been with my man for 7 yrs but i did experiment b4 him and I can honestly say the best sex i have had is with the man i love.
Rather than sleeping with another man y dont u try doing new things with ur hubby....different positions, toys...even they dreaded dark hole.
Talk things through with ur husband...i'm sure he'll understand!
2006-09-26 02:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by fat_arse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do unto others what you want them to do to you;how would you feel today to find out your husband is cheating on you - my answer is if you truly love your husband for this 4yrs 3 then cherish him,thoughts of another man will cost you your marriage.
2006-09-26 02:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by Chinny 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a big differenc between merely curious and not wanting to be with him anymore. It's a big jump into the deep end of the pool, be careful.
2006-09-26 02:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it unless you are willing to lose your husband. If you love your husband why would you betray his trust like that and start your marriage so badly. Work on having a good marriage.
2006-09-26 02:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by smartgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋