my family members are...
Mom=shes a piano teacher who taught her students in our house; work time 1:00pm-9:00pm (with out rest)
Dad= a professor in bones, he work outside the house; work time 4:00pm-10:30pm
Small Sister=age of 9;school time 7:00-3:30
Myself=im 16; with the same school time
My parents distrust foriegn maids, from our experience they ran away in the last day when they are suppose to return back to their homeland; they offen stay on the phone while doing chores, they hang out with their kind when picking up my sister. They steal.
nowTHE POINT:
since last year, my parents decide to do our chores ourself, both to feel secure and to save some cash. But we kids dont really have time on washing dishes cleaning up, cause we got school works to do. My dad left garbage behind him after he left home, my mom is busy, out living room is total a mess, and they were the one who pile those garbage. Every day my mom complain, everymonth a cokroch, we kids work as slave!HELP!
2006-09-26 02:28:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Make a reasonable cleaning house schedule. However, since all of u r busy, dun make it too packed. U can start with important n easy jobs like sweep floor once a week, clear rubbish bin every night n wash dishes every meal.
Try for a month n then, change or add new jobs as necessary.
However, i advice u to discuss this suggestion either one by one or in a group especially ur parents. Like the 3 musketeers 'All for one, one for all'. Take care..
2006-09-26 02:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by fify 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was young my Father told us to work, take out the trash, do dishes,. clean the house, bathrooms, make your bed, keep your room clean, do the lawn, cut the grass, wash the car, vacume the car..both cars at that. Finally rake the leaves .
This sense of responsibility grew on me that we (Sister & Brother)worked hard as children and I grew up working harder than my peers and always got promoted faster because I like hard work and it makes me climb the ladder to success faster than most.
Discipline is good, and if you accept it as such and make the best of it and be the best at it and stop complaining about it, you will shine quickly and mature fast.
When I was in the 5th grade, I was studying the dictionary, it was my favorite book. Now I am going to talk to you in my College form of address and you will notice the differecne between my normal self and my business mind as suppoose to answering your question.............ready HERE IT GOES>>> Your comment about Lazy is rapacious yet your mind is prudent compared to endemic reliance towards chores of the adolescent behavior.
To qualify as a first runner up obedient King, one must impair their foolish acts and strive for an assiduous behavior instead. Your attentuation level thus far is weak, but your drive is precarious to question the authority in which it prevails and then assume that it shall not prevail upon you because of a weak mind. Build your selfesteem and prosperity will be your career and not your downlow.
YOU SEE THE DIFFERENCE?? There is a big differecne in educated minds versus Highschool agenda. You make the choice
You can be a leader or a follower and I hope that this lesson this morning has given you some light .
2006-09-26 02:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could hire a maid that comes in once a week. They do that now. Clean the house on the weekends. Pick on day, Saturday or Sunday, and divide up the house work. You could also put trash cans in every room. When someone's trash is full, they can take it to the kitchen on their way to dinner, or something. Your mother should be the one ordering people around instead of complaning about it. Just throw everything away. LOL.
2006-09-26 02:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by rock101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because my husband and I have 2 very demanding jobs. We hired a maid to come in 2 or 3 days a week to help out.
All this did was to make my kids lazy. They still had their own chores to do, but didn't because they believed she should do it for them.
We got rid of the maid, and set up a chore schedule for the whole family. My hubby, myself, and each of our 3 kids had specific chores to do. In working together we keep the house pretty clean and well run.
Get over yourself you are not a slave.
2006-09-26 02:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As part of a family you have to cooperate with the house chorus, it will be good if you mom hire a housekeeper for two days a week so she can clean de house and do laundry and you and your siblings just have to take care of the dishes, cleaning the kitchen and to have your room in order,,,,,I think the problem with your family is disorganization.....so you have to make an agenda and schedule so you can asign whos gonna make the chorus and a what time....it is not to hard....do it or the roaches are gonna eat all of you.
2006-09-26 02:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by haki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd project you in looking something reliable and priceless in each and every of your household member. tell them this reliable project and stop searching on the undesirable. reveal by party your own virtues yet do no longer brag or rub their faces on it. for instance, you finished college. Wo pee DO! locate out the thanks to assist absolutely everyone contained in the relatives who may choose a school education or any occupation education, it would not should be college and help them. stop searching for what they could do for you, seek for what you should do for them! Your unrelenting negativity in course of your household will enhance question on your psychological and emotional progression. Your college education has executed little to enlighten you. it would have given you the files of your roots, the compassion to understand your household, and finally the talents to assist them. college has taught you to be haughty and given you a lost superiority complicated. i wish that there continues to be love on your heart on your "disgusting, lazy, and filthy" relatives because although far you try to run, they are going to continuously be with you. you're them!
2016-12-02 02:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God! Have you heard yourself? Stop crying like a baby. Not everyone needs / wants / can afford a maid. Get over yourself and just get on with it.
Personally I live with my partner, our working days start at 7am - 6pm and we both do our own cleaning / cooking / laundry with no complaint, problem or upset.
You sound like a spoiled brat!
2006-09-26 02:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell them to cut back some work hours and spent that on family time; buy insect sprays like Raid to kills bugs. You have to work together to keep the house clean and organize; otherwise, don't complain.
2006-09-26 02:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by themysterious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to responsibility. It is time to earn your keep. You are lucky that you have parents who have good jobs. If you were poor you would have been doing this since you were 8. What the hell is going to happen to you when you go to college? You will do all the junk yourself anyway.
2006-09-26 02:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by damisaunders@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a family counslor
2006-09-26 02:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by buffywalnuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋