why carnt i find a bf,i dont mean to sound big headed but lots of ppl think im pritty and have a nice figure but every time i go round town i carnt meet any 1.id say i was a quiet person and have a quiet personality but im sensable for my age as im 18 but my friends 1 of these who will just have 1 night stands but she seems to find good looking lads or bfs and she is your average type off girl.can any 1 tell me why this is plz?
2006-09-26 02:06:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good, decent guys are rare. If you were after a one night stand you would have plenty of offers. But if your looking for a boyfriend or relationship it's harder, especially as your only 18, guys around your age are only after one thing, generally speaking.
2006-09-26 02:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it 's your spelling !
Sorry, but spelling is important.
To answer your question:
Looks are not everything and I'm sure that you are very attractive but outgoing people are more likely to meet people than people who are more quiet or shy (myself included).
If you are a more sensible person than that means that you want more out of a relationship than just a one night stand. You will still meet people you like but it will take more time. This has always been the case with me at least, but I think my relationships were much stronger because of it.
Hang in there, and be confident in yourself - you'll do just fine !
2006-09-26 09:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are intimidated by good looking women, so they might be shying away from you thinking your way out off there league. Try making the move towards the type off men you like and start talking, they will be happy a good looking girl is talking to them and relise how nice you are.
Hope this has helped a little
2006-09-26 09:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets start with your level of education, your spelling is atrocious, and your opinion of yourself..big headed..also you do not put out? What an attractive package you are..NOT. At the very least you need to start letting a few guys sample what is on offer and improving your technique.
Also you sound like you could lose a few pounds and tone up...
2006-09-26 09:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not sure, but im 18 and from scotland and to be honest I can't find a girlfriend.maybe because what i look in a girl isnt what i see around me.I see too many girls that are "comon" -same hairdos,clothes talk similar,look similiar. This sounds really cheesy but-I want a someone to cherish , not just to show off.some1 with real personality if you know what i mean and ofcourse i want a looker........tarts just arent apealin to me. I got a bad quality thats a turn-off tho, I've got a stammer/stutter :-( .gota live with it so......!
2006-09-26 09:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by tam cowan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried asking yourself why you want a boyfriend? what part of you is incomplete without one? once you can answer these questions you will know yourself a little better and be more aware of what you have to offer someone in a relationship.
unless you are looking for just a one night stand, in which case try joining a dating site, cos the men on there are all just looking for a one nigh stand (not that i am bitter or anything!).
good luck sweetie, you will be fine, just relax and be yourself!
2006-09-26 09:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really are a groovy chick, maybe you're just being too picky, or not giving the right people a chance. I can't imagine it would be that tough.
2006-09-26 09:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by The Archeologist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the right man will find you trust me but be open and sweet but also kinda play hard to get it will drive the boys crazy especially the right one cause they want to know more about you but its nothing wrong with you at all. your friend just been dating longer than you so she knows the game thats all but you will get one day but just be picky also try online dating. that way you won't be shy at all
2006-09-26 09:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some Men are intimidated by very attractive females.
I for one are one of those men who try to stay in 'my league' which i class as 'slighly above average'
anything above my league - i dont even try
2006-09-26 10:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that relationships are not for everyone,some people are happy alone,maybe you could be one of those people. on the other hand if you really want one,let it happen naturally,if you are stressing about it,it will be Evan more difficult for you
2006-09-26 09:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by CHARLIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋