Men to look at porn, have a porn stash . . . but for women its taboo and wrong ?
For an example my best mate found out her bf had a stash (mags,dvds) and she asked him if he could get rid of it because she felt offended (which he did). . . then he was looking at her laptop and found some sites for women and now he isnt talking to her ! ?
2006-09-26 02:02:04 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ Love Angel Music Baby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That sucks, I used to find porn on my boyfriends laptop I was pissed and told him to get rid of it and trust me we live together I've searched everything, found it again at one point but now its been a year or so and I never find anything anymore we just have sex more! lol
2006-09-26 02:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by ♥RN♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong for women to look at porn. The reason the bf got p*ssed is because she's a hypocrite. She made him get rid of his porn all the while she's doing the same thing. She can't have it both ways. I don't blame him for being mad. I would be too. My question is why are women so against men looking at porn? To me it has nothing to do with their gf and it's harmless fun. Everyone needs to chill out about it and stop the whole double standard thing. It's meant to be fun, not something dramatic and sinful. Get a grip people.
2006-09-26 09:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says it's taboo for women? Nothing wrong with it in moderation. It can be addictive for some people though(mostly men I think) in which case it would no longer be a good thing. If a person watches too much of it, it may be hard for them to be stimulated in any other way. I mean, let's face it, it would be hard for any of us to live up to what you see in most porn flicks. Tell your best mate to buy her guy some new "stash"! I bet he will be talking to her again in no time at all! She can get some for her self while she's at it!
2006-09-26 09:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason the boyfriend is offended is because the girlfriend told him to get rid of the porn, but she has her own.
It is more of "do as I say not as I do" than a double standard against women.
2006-09-26 09:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's double standards babe, there's nothing wrong with women liking porn. I know a couple of girls who love porn films and have a few mags. It doesn't bother old Root in the slightest.
2006-09-26 09:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by The Stig 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there really isn't anything wrong with it. but your friend came across as a hypocrite. she acted offended by his mags and dvds when she was an undercover porn seeker herself. she should apologize and get something for the both of them to enjoy. that way no one will be offended
2006-09-26 09:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are getting the wrong end of the stick. The reason he's not talking to her is not because she has porn, but because she is a hypocrite.
She asks him to get rid of his porn, when she has some herself.
2006-09-26 09:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by shoby_shoby2003 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not. Some men are just stupid. Besides, women look at plenty of things but they are not considered porn. Womens magazines are full of men in provocative photos. There is also movies and television. You think MEN vote in People magazines 100 sexiest men? I don't think so.
2006-09-26 09:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because why can she have a porn stash and not get rid of it but he had one and had to get rid of it. Thats why he isn't talk to her, its a bit hypocritical of her.
2006-09-26 09:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by Lost In Love... 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It isn't taboo for women to look at porn, it's quite sexy.
I don't think your friends bf was mad coz his girlfriend was looking at porn per say.
I think it's probably the fact she was being a hypocrite, not letting him look at porn but looking at it herself
;~)
2006-09-26 12:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by tom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋