2006-09-26 01:59:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-26 02:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so men can be coniving when they want to be . And they will use any trick in the book to get what they want out of women. So be carefull. Good luck hope this helps.
2006-09-26 09:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are natural responders .
Beware of the man with the sweet tongue who tickles the ears saying the things that he knows you want to hear.
To get their own way.
There are genuine men who at times will compliment a lady you need to be able to discern .
Does he treat me with respect?
Do we have a good rapor are we friends?
Do I trust him?
Take care!
2006-09-26 09:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Women can do the same thing too. People like this are just out for themselves, what THEY want and have no real feelings at all - except for an overinflated ego.
2006-09-26 09:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by risa131313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE THOUGHT HE COULD BUT IT COST HIM A FRIEND WHO WOULD HAVE BEEN A TRUE FRIEND!I am dealing with one of these now. I MET him 26 years ago and never spoke a word to him until he hunted me down on a website. He came and visited for an initial 3 day only visit but KEPT trying to make excuses to EXTEND the visit. I was ready for him to go HOME. I TOLD him that I ONLY could be a friend. He kept on saying, "In time you will have feelings for me" He just DID NOT get it. Please beware of the following:
1) NO RESPECT for BOUNDARIES. If a woman says she DOES NOT want a relationship and the male.( I will not say MAN because REAL MEN do not do this!) He WILL PERSIST that he can "FIX" you and "help you overcome traumatic events from years ago. THEY THINK THEY ARE ABLE TO HELP YOU WITH THINGS ONLY GOD CAN!
2) You tell him OVER A HUNDRED times YOU DO NOT LIKE TO BE TOUCHED AND DO NOT TRUST MALES, BUT he says he can "fix" that and has nothing but respect for you. ( A) If he did he would have HEARD YOUR WORDS! (B) His actions SPEAK differently! He will try to hold your hand, even though YOU MADE IT CLEAR YOU DO NOT WANT TOO,(C) He says, 'It would just make ME feel so much better if YOU would just HOLD MY HAND" Ladies there is NO respect there!
(3 ) If your a single mom struggling to make ends meet, the male will often try to convince you that YOU NEED THEM in order to survive. PLEASE, You have already raised your kids and supported yourself and you kids JUST FINE ALL BY YOUR SELF)
4) They will USE YOUR children, or grandchildren ,by offering to "help" them, mentor them (PLEASE DO NOT FALL FOR THIS!) and listen to their problems. There are a few MEN who do not but the MALES will have zero boundaries and think if you and your child are having a disagreement they can come play the "hero" especially when they have JUST MET YOUR CHILDREN or grandchildren. They try to act like THEY know more about them than you do in just a few days!
(5) They will offer to "IMPROVE" your life even though you have everything you need.
(6) BEWARE when they try to spend money on you, your children or grandchildren who they JUST MET.
(7) You TELL the male REPEATEDLY you DO NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP AND ARE NOT READY FOR ONE AND DOUBT YOU EVER WILL BE, esp. when you have been quite content with your life. He will CONSTANTLY say. " If you just give me a chance I cam make it all "GO AWAY" Please!! Some things NEVER go away. Keep in mind you have told him yet ANOTHER 100 times YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE TOUCHED NOR DO YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP! HE KEEPS ON!!
(8) He will buy you things YOU DID NOT ASK for and say, " I just want to show you I am not like the rest, I am a true gentleman" BUT..... as you again stress ANOTHER 100 times that you do NOT want a relationship, he will remind you how much he cares because he "bought you a couple of small things" when you said, "No, I do NOT want this". He responds with, "Your life could be so much better IF you let ME help you" REAL women CANNOT BE BOUGHT!
(9) If you have ANY kind of problem, no matter how small or large, they try so hard to convince you that if you allowed them to stay at your house a few days, they could "HELP" you with it. BUT...YOU have already told them YOU DO NOT WANT OR NEED COMPANY OR HELP!!
(10) They BLOW up your phone with calls after you said STOP! They insist they are just making sure your okay. You lose it and tell them to BUTT OUT but they keep calling, texting or trying to come to your house ANYWAY!!
(11) So to the "males out there, NO, YOU CANNOT, the SMALL list above are things that make women RUN AWAY FROM YOU.
(12) So to the TRUE MEN out there, Kudos to you and please educate the "males" that they are the ones who have probably RUINED the ONE woman out there who acts like this.
2014-08-01 19:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, the father of my child did from the day we started dating to the day i dumped his ass, for 3 yrs and sadly for my child, he has to know this man....
2006-09-26 09:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would they do that?If they make women think they love them they think they will get a piece of pountang pie.Once he gets the pie he turns into a jerk.
2006-09-26 09:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋