im 15 years old and almost finishing grade 9, an excellent athlete and brilliant hockey player..i have so many girls who are my friends but.....i have never had a boyfriend,never been kissed and never been asked to dance, im not the prettiest girl in the world and im not ugly, all my friends say ive got such a great personailty, but when i get infront of guys i turn from a full of fun girl to a quite say nothing/do nothing......wat am i to do?
2006-09-26 01:56:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no not a loser and dont rush things either ..dont be fooled by mates that you have to have a boyfriend and have sex ect ....boys will respect you more for not acting like a tart and then you will have the pick of the best later......
2006-09-26 01:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by kathy_madwoman_bates 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when did someone who is an excellent athlete and a brilliant hockey player with friends become a loser and that too at such a young age when you are just starting life??? If it is just the fact that you dont have a boyfriend it really shouldnt matter. There is plenty of time for relationships later in life when you are mentally and physically ready and looking for a life partner. I am sure that many boys respect you as a trustworthy friend and you dont have to listen to peer pressure that you have to have a boyfriend. You may never have been kissed or asked for a dance but it also means you havent dumped anyone and have not been dumped by anyone. You have also not been exposed to sexually transmitted diseases or had to worry whether you are pregnant or not. All you need to do is focus on your studies and romance will find you when you least expect it.
Regards,
Kalyan
2006-09-26 02:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by kalyan19677 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be so tough on your self. You are only 15. You have freinds. And thats important. And if other around you cant accept you for the way you are. Then stay clear. There is plenty of time for boy freinds. And it will happen when it happens. and i'm sure you will be very happy together when the time is right. And no you are not a loser. And dont ever let anyone say diffrent. Take care. I would send you a kiss. But people might take it the wrong way. And i'm old enough to be you dad.
2006-09-26 02:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely not!!! You have lots of friends, you have interests and you are an individual, all most wonderful qualities. You are only 15, I never had a boyfriend or been kissed at 15 either, I was having too much fun being 15! Don't be in a rush to grow up.
2006-09-26 02:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you're only 15. You still have so many other things to accomplish before you start stressing over boys. You are not a loser. You're obviously very talented athletically. That could take you a long way if you stick with it. And trust me when I tell you, having a boyfriend is so over-rated. At that age they're immature and goofy so you're not missing much. Focus on what you want to accomplish for yourself before you start worrying about boys and relationships. There's no one else like you, remember that. Take care hon.
2006-09-26 02:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just part of growing up some 15 year old have lots of partners others don't have any just enjoy yourself my daughter is 14 and going through the same teenage problems i also have a 17 year old and 19 year old and they are still growing up.Make the most of the good times before you hit the world of adults and have responsibilities.
2006-09-26 02:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you think you are the only one who has never had a boyfriend but you are not...There are plent of other girls like you, and it does not make you or them a loser. Just be patient, and don't rush into anything...your time will come to get a boyfriend when you least expect it...For now you are young, so just focus on having fun and doing well in school :)
2006-09-26 02:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why change yourself when someone comes into the room? Be yourself anywhere everytime. Let your personality speak for you. Also, dont stress about boys, your so young, you have plenty of time to worry about that! Let a guy chase you sweety, thats there job ;)
2006-09-26 01:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. If you're a good athlete I take it that you have a good body figure as well.
I'm sure there will be some guys who like you. Maybe they are even too shy to show.
2006-09-26 01:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by meiguanxi :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ever call yourself a loser. others really don't know anything... you yourself said what a wonderful person you are and that remains a fact. whether guys pay you attention or not is not a earth shattering matter... probably you are shy or guys around you are shy or they think you'll refuse them... it could be anything... everything will happen in time... don't worry, stay the way you are, i am sure life is going to be wonderful for you... don't ever change...
2006-09-26 01:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by publically_private 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋