And they started to tell you they didn't want to hurt your feelings. But later stated they could tell there would be fights if " we did get married". Does that mean their feelings are changing? Or they have just thought about it?
2006-09-26 01:50:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you should give it time. an just let it go the wat gods has planned it. You should go with what your gut says.
2006-09-26 01:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by greg577452004 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well based on what you've said, I would assume that this guy doesn't really know what he wants because he seems to be rambling alot. What you rightly did was make your feelings clear and since he still seems to have lingering doubts, that clearly proves that he's not ready for a commitment and doesn't really love you. Cause he's also making up frivilous excuses to justify why he's reluctant like "he could tell there would be fights if we get married". This suggest to me that if you two should get married, and problems do occur later on in the marriage, he's not gonna lift a finger to help but rather make things worse. So all and all, you need to leave him where he is and move on cause he's certainly not ready yet and there's no telling if he ever will be.
2006-09-26 09:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means they don't know what the hell they want. They haven't come to a conclusion yet. Sit back, don't push, and don't tell them you love them anymore. If they ask why you don't say it anymore just tell them you already said it, so they know how you feel, and you don't want to make them uncomfortable by saying it over and over.
2006-09-26 08:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admit, it is a puzzling combination of statements. Unless you two have regularly had arguments I can't imagine what that fighting statement would mean.
I can't say if you have a real chance, but it's too early to give up.
2006-09-26 08:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by meiguanxi :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this means this person has come to a crossroads in your relationship and from the looks of it he's decided that he doesn't see a future with you. You should probably spare yourself any extra hurt and just move on.
2006-09-26 08:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by aak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be they don't want to get hurt, but it could be both of those things you said as well. Just work with it and give it time.
Best wishes
2006-09-26 08:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by ME2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly don't think that person feels the same way you do and didn't want to "hurt your feelings".
2006-09-26 08:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a confused guy......he is not sure about your whole relationship....do not get married to a guy who does not give you assurance of a long-term relationship like marriage but instead keeps on giving you excuses......so my advice would be to DUMP the guy and get a real guy who is genuine
2006-09-26 09:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by sweetjan20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. Probably sincere reflection and a 'let's wait' decision was the result.
2006-09-26 08:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by Juble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They've thought about it and they're warning you not to get involved with them. Trust them. They know of what they speak.
2006-09-26 23:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their feelings are changing
2006-09-26 08:53:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋