I am an african american and I love to date opposite of my race. I find white men to be so sexxy and I love when they dress all "suited up". But the problem is when I try to talk to these men, they dont know how to TAKE A HINT! Have any pointers?
2006-09-26 01:27:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Screw hinting around...go for the gusto and let them know what you want. Its the only way you will get what you want.
2006-09-26 01:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have some issues to resolve within your own self first. I do not see why a man's race should be a factor in finding a mate. Is it that you think african american, asian or other men do not measure up to white men? These men may actually see that chip that you have on your shoulder, and thats why they are not dating you. Maybe you do not measure up to the standards of these "white sucessful men"
2006-09-26 08:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by fareen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
white men find a/american women intimidating most of the time, also nt so gd with signals. the direct approach, while having a lower success rate) will hand u the answer in a shorter time with less hassle. try to be slightly submissive while still showing u cn take care of urself
2006-09-26 09:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by skitz122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are crazy if you are not a successful woman. sucessful men only use unsucessful women. race is not an issue and does not matter. where i come from there is a saying: you're shooting at the moon with a 410 gauge shotgun. which means you are never going to hit it. when sucessful look for sucess...otherwise you will only be degrading yourself & your self esteme.
2006-09-26 08:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You date people who have an attitude. Date genuine ones, black or white, it doesn't matter unless you have a particular reason apart from what you have said here. Maybe they don't like your HINT! You can be taken for a loose one for dropping those hints of yours.
2006-09-26 08:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of white men love dating opposite race also. Just keep going with what you're doing, you will find someone that's not a dim bulb...lol
2006-09-26 08:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by Cassandra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let them know you find them attractive complement them on there suit or cologne and tell them how great they look they should get the hint
2006-09-26 08:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by jerry k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think your crazy, maybe a little miss guided
2006-09-26 08:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by bprice215 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be what's called a gold digger.
2006-09-26 08:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
talk to those that know english
2006-09-26 08:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋