Ok i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we have had our good times and bad times but we love each other.. BUT he lives 20 min away and i meet this guy that live like4 min away from where i live and i like him but i dont want to leave my bf i love him. i want to hang out with him bt then i dont bc i dont want anything to happen and me regret it what should i do?
2006-09-26 01:22:19 · 11 answers · asked by britt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I no exactly wat ur goin thru! make sure ur wi another mate or somone wen u hang out wi this other guy, then u cant Really do anything... and DONT get drunk whatever you do,
2006-09-26 01:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay before you make any major decisions you should try to get to know this guy. but if you really loved your boyfriend,20 minutes wouldnt be that far away. if you loved him you wouldnt think twice. what if this new guy turns out to be a real jerk after you get rid of your bf.you could be losing the best thing that ever happened to you and gaining nothing. good luck! i hope this helps.
2006-09-26 08:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by southern_beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want your cake and eat it too! How old are you? I think you don't need a steady boyfriend at this time and thats OK! When the right boy and time comes along distance won't be a factor!
2006-09-26 08:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think no matter how far the guy lives if you love him enough then the fact that he lives 20 min away won't matter.so i think that you leave the other guy alone and focus on what you have now.good luck
2006-09-26 08:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Eric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already no the answer stay with your boy friend. You have no idea what this other guy is like. And anyways why would you want a boy friend that lives so close to you.
2006-09-26 08:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it's not bad... To meet somebody is a great thing, that telling you are a friendly person. But interaction can lead to different things and can change your relationship to your boyfriend..
2006-09-26 08:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by realme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Britt...if you really loved your boyfriend, you wouldn't be asking the question. You already know the answer. You are just looking to validate it so you don't feel guilt. You'll be fine, and so will your boyfriend, regardless of your choice.
2006-09-26 08:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno. i'm in thats situation myself. i just came to the conclusion that i'm not really that in luv wit my bf cuz if i was i wouldnt have thots of wanting to date someone else. i'm only 20 and i'm assuming ur young too, so take life as it goes and have fun. us girls r gonna be married and cookin and cleaning soon. so wen that time comes we can look back and be like "damn, i luved my single years"!
2006-09-26 08:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are such a lazy piece of crap that you can't even drive an extra 15 minutes to be with someone you care about..you suck!
2006-09-26 08:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mystery Guest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its REALLY love... would 20 minutes make a difference?
2006-09-26 08:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by spedtrap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋