The first time the guy met the girl, he says he like her a lot but after a date, the guy rarely communicates. He said he missed everything about her but he shows the opposite of it. Will the girl take this kind of guy seriously? Please help.. Need some sensible answers.
2006-09-26 01:18:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I know what you are talking about. There are basically two kinds of guys:
1. The regular guys (let's say 85% of them). He doesn't have much skill in dating and just goes along with the flow. If a regular guy does this, he probably is just bored of you but does not have the courage to let you know verbally. Dump him...
2. The "player" (15% at best). He plays hard to get. He acts differently from what he talks so that he can confuse you and create an aura of mistery about you. If so, you should see his bodylanguage miss you at least at some point.
Bottom line: If he shows just a little that she misses the girl in a non-verbal way, he belong to the 2-nd category.
2006-09-26 01:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by Outlawer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never sleep with a guy on the first date. If you did, that was your mistake. Don't ever do that mistake again.
Keep men hanging on by never sleeping with them under 3 months even if you're dying to. Don't be under the influence of alcohol or drugs to ensure you don't break this number one rule.
You need to provide more information. You obviously are upset by this situation. He MAY be occupied with other aspects of his life like family, career, studies although I highly doubt he is really interested. Most of our true communications are in the non-verbal gestures.
Move on. He sounds like he is using you (sorry to say this and you aren't alone - there are many girls this has happened to until they follow my 3-6 months rule - the longer the better). He is keeping you hanging on for another horizontal dance.
2006-09-26 08:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a numbskull would take this guy seriously. He has no credibility. Actions speaks louder than words.
2006-09-26 08:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she(you?) should ignore him!
If he's really interested, he'll chase you/her. Maybe that's what his problem is...he's got you/her under his thumb, and it's boring!
And, if this is the case, you/her might want to just stay away, cuz it means he is playing games and doesn't know what he wants out of life yet (probably due to his age)
Good luck!!
2006-09-26 08:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by silver butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMETIMES they take you out 4 sex.THEN when they get what they want they dont know you any more.
2006-09-26 08:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'll answer your question in two words..
MOVE ON !
2006-09-26 08:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is none of your business
2006-09-26 08:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mystery Guest 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋