I am a 20 year old female and my whole life I have felt trapped in my body, I wish I had been born a male.
I have been considering having a sex change yet I know my father will freak!
Who else feels like I do and what have you done about it?
I am despratly confused!
2006-09-26 00:44:58 · 6 answers · asked by crazymonkey1909 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Hi there honey.I have the same problem in reverse.I am a 19 year old woman trapped in a male body.I wear womens clothes all the time,and wish I could afford the operation.I know how you feel,but people treat me like a freak.Stick with it and hope you can get free.All my love
2006-09-26 00:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Pauline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I used to feel like that.
See, I grew up liking reading, fashion, poetic dancing and the performing arts. I'm not all that handsome, I can't put up a decent fist fight and my favorite TV show was Sailor Moon. I even liked certain guys in high school beyond what most people think is normal. ANd during a school concert, my antics on stage earned me the title of "Spice Girl".
But now, I still like the same things but I'm comfortable in my body. Sure, I'm chubby, sure, I'm gentle, sure, I'm not a guy the way society defines it. But I've learned to accept that I am a unique and live with it. And the best part is somewhere, I know I can attract some woman and be a great father someday!
I don't know what you went through or what made you feel that way. Maybe your dad wished for a son, maybe society just doesn't think you make a good female. I don't know. But I do know that you are a unique special individual customly designed that way for a reason. You're not a mistake! When you can live with your body, it'll be amazing what you can find.
God bless.
2006-09-26 01:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Studier Alpha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see a psychiatrist or psychologist to help you sort out your feelings before you do anything. Many people have had sex change surgeries and later regretted it. They can also help you get a clearer understanding of what is happening inside of you. Good luck
2006-09-26 00:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by dbarnes3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel that way? Do you want to talk about it?
Discuss all the issues first before you make any irrational decisons. Contact me if you want.
2006-09-26 00:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by weeroppadc2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Changing sex won't help you with your English either.
2006-09-26 00:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Master_of_my_own_domain 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm sure there are
2006-09-26 00:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋