The relationship has been a bit messy since we split (She broke up with me) and I'm not sure what course of action to take here.
2006-09-26 00:27:53 · 44 answers · asked by Darren 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you don't buddy, you'd be better off hanging a placard round your neck saying 'please take me back - I can't live without you' Nah, that's a losers choice!!
2006-09-26 00:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by L6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
A bit messy, your not with her,she broke up with you and she is an ex girlfirend now. Do not buy her a birthday card. But if you do go ahead and get her one don't exspect this to be a magic card to have her running back to you. If she broke it off? She will or should call you. If you don't hear from her. Move on.
Take care.
2006-09-26 00:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sending her a card is a nice thing to do. The card (i.e. its design and wording) and the message you put in it can say a lot about your intentions. I sent my ex a card - and made sure she got it on time - if there is any danger it is late, then you are better off not sending a card at all..
2006-09-26 00:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/FT7kf
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-05-01 04:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course!! If you don't she'll know that she made the right decision in breaking up. If you do she'll think good about you and you'll feel good about having sent it . It's just a bIrthday card!! But don't get too mushy. Short, sweet and to the point!!
2006-09-26 00:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Texican2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends why she split with you. If you were faultless, move on and save your money for your next girlfriend. Trying to stay friends rarely works. If you were at fault - a card AND flowers would be good.
2006-09-26 01:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by feebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try learning what ex means and the course of action should be moving on. why on earth would you send her a card? save your time and effort on someone new and get on with your life. hanging unto the past with only bring bad things your way
2006-09-26 00:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cute and free birthday present is a Happy Birthday Singing Dog video, you can send her the link or download the video and send it that way. Will make her smile 100% :)
http://www.heron-productions.com/singingdog3.html
2006-09-27 07:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by pixel876 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!
Ive recently split with my ex and if he sent me a birthday card i would chuck it back at him!!or in the bin!!
2006-09-26 00:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by XCuteX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience... NO!
This is not a matter of etiquette. Don't waste your time. And stop feeling sorry for yourself. The relationship is over, dead & buried. You wouldn't dig up a corpse, or would you? Stop clinging to the past. Remember, 'she' dropped 'you'. Her loss. Hold your head high & carry on.
2006-09-26 00:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are freinds, and you see each other as friends, then if you want to get her a card, then do so. If you are not friends, they why get her a card?!
My ex girlfriend is lucky she isn't getting a dead carp and black roses for her birthday.
2006-09-26 00:50:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋