2006-09-25 23:14:48 · 13 answers · asked by Janet A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it's ok with u & it's ok with him, go ahead. There are no rules. I t just might be the thing to spice things up.
2006-09-26 18:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok? OK?! Of COURSE it'll be OK!
My goodness, girl, you'll be every man's dream!
But, listen. A woman who makes the first move every time will get tired of being the one who makes the first move every time, and maybe he's getting used to things happening the same way every time and getting a little bored with it. But that's no problem - it's just human.
On the other hand, you make the first move and it shows that not only do you have a sex drive, too, but your desire for him is strong enough that you're not going to wait for him to get the idea.
Here's the most important thing, though: It's OK for either of you to make the first move. Neither of you is there solely to satisfy the other whenever the other is in the mood, waiting for the other to make the "first move." Maybe he's waiting to see what you'll do - do you really enjoy it and want him or are you putting up with it whenever he wants it? If you both decide on your own to let the other make the first move, then you'll both be waiting a long time, and whoever finally cracks will feel defeated.
Don't let this get started. You make the move when you want to, and he'll make the move when he wants to, and each of you go along with it when the other makes the move, and nobody will feel needy or neglected.
There are going to be times when one or the other is honestly just not in the mood, and you two have got to talk about this, and how you'll handle it. You have it in your power to turn this into one of the great love affairs of all time, with both of you feeling wanted, needed, and fulfilled. If you will talk to each other about your sex life, and let each other know your thoughts about it, you will be impressed with how really wonderful it will be, and you'll be the envy of all your friends. No joke.
2006-09-26 06:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by barbertono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem, frankly you boyfriend will appreciate you for trying so go ahead do not be shy. contrary to most beliefs most men appreciate women who make the first move
2006-09-26 06:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some men are shy most are not as expierenced as they claim. most of em showered in highschool in thier underwear but let them tell it they were banging the school nurse, the sexy art teacher and librarian. go ahead make your move. if he does'nt like it, maybe you are with the wrong guy.
2006-09-26 06:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by yahbonez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No definitely not!You look up my email address and get straight in touch with me,then we can sort this thing out together without involving your boyfriend,okay,sure.good.
2006-09-26 06:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Howie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Sure it is ok. Sex is a deep form of communication. Sometimes you are doing the "talking", and, sometimes you are doing the "listening".
2006-09-26 06:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its great !You do need to spice it up babe you cant always expect him to do it, show him you still enjoy being with him rather than just doing it for him and it helps if you set the mode with candle light and a sexy outfit
2006-09-26 06:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure ......it makes a nice change for the female to be all up front n in ya face ...lol
2006-09-26 06:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by slysimon69 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is! if u r confident about it just give it a go! ;)
2006-09-26 06:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by scartissue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. If you want it then go for it. Be safe though :)
2006-09-26 06:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by akoyikalima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋