me and my ex was togeather 3 yrs and been split up 1 and a half i have a new man i been with a year i love him and hes great to me way better than my ex but my exs keeps calling and i think about him everyday anyway i dont know why or what to do i want to get him out of my head what do i do?
2006-09-25 22:44:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sure you can get over him......what you gotta do is change your number....or just simply ignore his call....give your new man a chance to prove his worth...his is over...try to focus on your new man. Remember this there is only one way that you can get over your old love ..it is with a new love.
2006-09-25 22:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by maic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been divorce after my d I did stay away from men it was my way of getting to know me and see why did I walk away for a 12 year m, he was not a great guy, but I have seen friend, co-worker, neighboor stay with worst way worst
after the D he use to botter me and I told him to stop he never did
but I keep busy whenhe call I don't pick up since we have children I would told the kids to pick if he asked to talk to me i say that I am busy do you one mornong I actually realized that I have not think of him in months and I completly forget wht he look like
What I am trying to say is this a day will come when would not remmeber what he look like
but for now if you don;t have children you have no reason to converse together either you change your phone# or don't anser when he calls
if when he call your new man is around have him answer and tell him to tell your x that from now on you are busy
This man does not want you back he just don't want someonelse to make you happy , goone wiht your life you deserve better
Good Luck
2006-09-26 06:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the people who are mean and rude when they answer you it just suggests that they are the miserable happy ones in life only they take it out on people they don't know because it makes them feel better about themselves somehow. I don't know if you ever will get over him, but you will move on and one day you will wake up and realize he has just become another ex. Stop taking his calls and eventually you will be able to put him in the past where he belongs, I know this because I am still going through it with an ex, they are like ternamites sometimes once they get in they don't get out easy.
2006-09-26 06:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by ladylunamina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember how bad the relationship was- and cut him loose- no more phone calls- he blew it somewhere- live in the here and now with the better you have been blessed with-take care- and guard your heart-if you quit talking to him that will help you get over him-D
2006-09-26 06:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to stop thinking about your ex and remain in the relationship you are in: STOP talking to him. even if he is just calling and you guys don't talk, don't answer the phone. If he continues to call you, tell him to stop and and if that doesn't work, block his caller ID. over time you will stop thinknig about him so much. and if not, maybe you should rethink why you guys broke up in the first place.
2006-09-26 05:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by jbakjs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you'll probably remember all the guys you'll have in your lifetime and by the time you are 50, you'll be so miserable, you'll wish you would have joined a convent
2006-09-26 05:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number.
2006-09-26 06:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only thing i can say is time heals all wounds so give ur self time
2006-09-26 06:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by murkymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋