I have just split up with my finacee after 2 1/2 years together we only split up because we had been arguing, she has given me the option to get back together on numerous occassions, but when she does i say i think if we do it will only lead to more arguments again, but when she goes away i always want her here and i love her to bits what do i do
2006-09-25 22:32:38 · 18 answers · asked by davidjamesraine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you miss her that much then why not give your relationship another go. You have nothing to lose but loads to gain. Take it slowly and see how it goes. if you have the attitude that your just going to argue then it probably won't work out. have an open mind and give it another go! good luck x
2006-09-25 22:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through exactly the same me and my partner split up about 5 weeks ago and it was over an argument the same as you .We have been talking for the last two weeks on line and in person and have got closer over the last two weeks than we did in the 2 and a half years we were together and we have discovered the reason we argued so much was cause we never talk or listen to each other we are both stubborn and selfish and spoilt and need to talk more maybe u r the same maybe you shud sit down talk and see where you go from there talk as friends and find out how each other feels and what you want .If you love each other you will work it out just talk instead of argue
2006-09-25 22:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by stephy200125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you cant live with her and cant live without her.
You two need to have a mother of all conversations about the problems you are having - why do you argue, how can ye put a stop to it - maybe start doing things ye used enjoy when ye first started dating - it sounds to me like you're both kinda stuck in a relationship and are irritable and fighting at the drop of a hat.
Maybe take a holiday - reboost enjoyment into the relationship!
2006-09-26 00:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..be constructive no matter how destructive the situation may be. what i'm trying to say is....follow your heart! There is no PERFECT relationship...in fact you gotta be afraid if problems doesn't come to you anymore..it means you're already dead....they are the only ones who doesn't have problems. Better yet talk to her and make some compromises with each other.....splitting up could be an option but absolutely not a good solution at all and sometimes it worsen even harder!
2006-09-25 23:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by maic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume if you get back together it will only be arguements. Negativity kills everything. If you really want it to work out you need to think positive. If you truly love her you would try anything to make it work. If you argue all the time then try and learn new ways to communicate to eachother. Think about what you say before you say it and maybe you will get better end results.
2006-09-25 23:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her dont let her go..uve been with her for 2 1/2 years dont tell me that u will start again..hey u know this person already she knows u..there should always a room for forgiveness relationship are not perfect cuz we are not perfect...arguments and fightings will make a better and stronger relationship.....so if shes worth of your love then dont let her go u cannot regret one thing in the future and will tell urself you should have done better
2006-09-25 22:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up 2 you......if she wants u back then think about why u got with her in the first place.....u love her + thats why u were with her for 2 1/2 years.....is it worth throwing it away?.....you's will need 2 sit down + talk things through about why you's are arguing etc....every couple argues, think about what u really want....
good luck
x.niks.x
2006-09-25 22:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by lil niks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the opportunity bto get back with her, i have done this and kicked myself for being stubborn and going with pride instead of my heart. you really need to set some rules for both of you to abide by to avoid these arguments and either resolve the old arguments or just put them behind you
2006-09-25 23:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her back give it a trial run of a month see how you get on and work hard at it theres no need to argue talk to each other and be there for each other you can get through this if you really love each other.
2006-09-25 23:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by K5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not good for each other. Find someone new, that you don't argue with. It will make you happier in the long run.
2006-09-25 22:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lick_My_Toad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋