he tests positive and says he did not know. You care about him but are unsure as of what to do? Any advise?
2006-09-25 22:19:45 · 5 answers · asked by Jen 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Get out of this relationship it will not lead ANYWHERE and you are putting yourself into great danger!!!
2006-09-25 22:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have some choices which are to have a sexual relationship with him but take precautions. Or to end your relationship with him. Which there is no need to do based on he is HIV positive. Or you can tell him you just want to be friends nothing more. You can have a relationship with him and be sexual with out having sex together. You and him can masturbate in front of each other. Use toys on each other. Just be sure to use precautions while doing so. The best advice is to consult your doctor for advice. They will be able to tell you whats the best precautions for you and him to take so you don't get HIV from him.
2006-09-25 23:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he already tests positive you need to be tested to provide the answer. If you are HIV free, you can take precautions, or end the relationship.
2006-09-25 22:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by JOHN M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been sexually active with him yet? How does he feel about the whole thing? The first thing is to be supportive of him - this is a huge thing to find out and he'll need all the support he can get. Talk with him about it - explain your worries and your fears. He may not even want to be sexually active right now.
Talk about it with him and make a choice together.
2006-09-26 05:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by Moxie1313 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are planning to maintain the relationship use protective measures
http://www.fda.gov/opacom/lowlit/aids.html
2006-09-25 22:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋