as you all suggested 4 days ago, i didnt care for shedding of clothes and left it for him to do. but that day he went late talking his friends. til he came i had slept.i thought he has gone upset.to overome this i myself unheded the clothes and waited for him . he came too.but he didnt even touch mine.i was nude alnight but he didnt do anything.this has been occuring till last 3 days. i dont know whats there in his mind .plz help n suggest. specially those who answered last time
2006-09-25 22:13:46 · 25 answers · asked by nisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i'm confused
2006-09-25 22:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nisha if ur marriage was arranged. then the man wil hav some kind of shy to touch you. but i think he hs beeng doing the same thing . u slept nude and he did not look at you. i think he has some prblem. sometimes he might be busy with job, thinking about the job. otherwise has some kind allergy towards sex. better you speak to him directly about sex. ask whehther he has any problem. i think both of y ou go for a counselling. you find a good sexologist and presnt the situation. i hope then the problems will be solve. Before you should speak to him regarding this and what he has in his mind.
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2006-09-26 06:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by lin d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just shedding clothes is not gud enough...he has to be mentally compatible to seek and have u...u have to find out what is in his mind..is he impotent? does he have someone else that he's in love with? are frnds more important to him than urself?
U have to make him comforable...no nagging only sweet talk...prepare a gud meal of his choice kiss him hug him and then see what he says abt it all...I hope once u know the answers to the above questions you will automatically find a solution...BOL
2006-09-27 02:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by sweeeeeeeeet sood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know him or u personally . but i thinkt there can be three things in his mind
1. if u are not married .. he wants to marry u or someone else
2.may be he is having affair wd any one else...i ish i am wrong here
3. may be he is is a great problem and not sharing wd any one..
but dont get confused ... if i know more abt u him i will hel p u definately .. and sorry if i am not able to give u right options but i wish u have a romantic life in ur near future
2006-09-26 05:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by styleguru_1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!
Sounds like he is shy! & Being naked in bed makes it look like you are too easily available and to some men, that might kill appetite for sex!
Stay in your clothes. Once he gets into bed, talk to him about something that happened in the day. As you talk, try playing with him....
May be stroking you fingers on his chest, arms! Cuddle upto him!
Kiss him casually!
Hope these open him up!
All the best!
AB
2006-09-26 13:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by arnab.boral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there maybe some prob with his official life or something or possibly hez havin another gal or having some physical probs.. these are the options and its upto u to find out whats the correct one? best of luck
2006-09-28 07:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
staying nude in bed isnt that tempting dan if u had made him yearn to see u nude.U have to set the flame,had u worn ultra sexy lingerie and lit a yellowish lamp for him to see this beauty sleeping im sure he'd be tearing off ur clothes with his mouth.try it and do wear a strong perfume to attract him.Enjoy dear.
2006-09-26 06:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but I tried to understand this and it seems that your hubby is not interested in you anymore-- especially you being naked ... his friends might be his new girlfriend and she is wearing him out-- its time for you to get rid of this hubby of yours-- you get a new life and someone who will love you for you --no guy will not let a nude lady go untounched -when she is so willing-- I personally thinks he's fooling around with someone else and you are there because you just do not want to believe this-- its time for you to move on
2006-09-26 06:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kya! tum saari raat na. .angi rahi? wow par soch kar dekho, tumhare darvaze ko kisi ne khatkhataya. you being nude opened the dore and fount he was your broher in law or any other man. you would have gone man. well u r lucky i wasnt there unless you would have gonna
2006-09-26 05:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by bhola kare bhogvan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he supposed to be a mind reader? TALK to him, just open your mouth and have a conversation, i wonder why people suddenly forget they can talk to their partner after they have been together for a while, it just makes me laugh, if you want something then you need to tell him.
2006-09-26 05:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has physicall problem, find a new partner. Are you in Chennai?
2006-09-26 05:22:33 · answer #11 · answered by Devaraj A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋