he refuses to pay maintence as stated (if at all) he earns more than enough. I was very fair over the settlement. If i need court order.. How?
2006-09-25 21:31:22 · 22 answers · asked by Beth T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm assuming we're talking about a case in England & Wales. You can enforce a maintenance order, whether for child or spousal maintenance, in the following ways:
1. Attachment of Earnings order - £ is taken direct from his paypacket.
2. Garnishee Order - £ is taken direct from his bank account (you have to tell the court where his £ is)
3. Registration in the Magistrates court - potentially goes to jail for non payment (rarely happens)
4. Charging order against his house. If he still doesn't pay, the court can order his house is sold to pay the arrears. Again, this is pretty draconian and rarely applied for.
Your best bet, assuming he's not self employed, is to apply for an Attachment of Earnings order. You can get the form & instruction booklet from your local county court
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2016-02-11 12:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most states you can get the County Attorney to force payment to you but that means you have to be on Public assistance before they handle your case...if not get the best Family law attorney in the county on retainer and do everything the attorney advises..when you take the deadbeat to court you will most likely get your attorney fees included in his revised consent order.. in any case good luck and hope he doesn't do as my ex did..first got a week continuance then during the week took a $1350 a month cut in pay...oh did I mention she worked at her fiance's older brothers business...and the judge wouldn't even consider the situation around her pay being dropped to $950 a month from $2300...during the one week continuance also...
2006-09-25 21:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by yao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. You may have to take him back to court. I think i may no what his problem his. He doe's not want to pay for something that he doe's not have anymore. Sorry to put in into that context. That is the way that people think. Why should i pay for what i dont have syndrome. If he dont pay. He dont get. Take him back to court. That the only way realy. Good luck. Seperation are never easy.
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2014-09-25 15:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband earns 700 a week,hes never payed a penny for his child since he left 2 years ago.The csa have been helpful but cause hes self emplyed they cant touch him.My suggestion to you is to speak to a solicitor (for what their worth!)get him to court by that way. It could take months and you might have to pay if your working.Some men my love are just assholes(were we mentally unbalance when we met them?!!!!)40%men dont pay for their children,us ladies take most of the brunt when relationships dont work out.But there are some mint men who take care of their children and PAY!
2006-09-25 23:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play name and shame.
Send a fax to his company in his name every month mentioning politely that they money has not arrived yet again and that now ..... is needed.
Get friends to go to the houses, apartments, shops near where he lives pretending to be debt collectors. Of course they mention why they need to find him...
It is done all the time here in the Middle East!!!
2006-09-25 21:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by Christine H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick a red hot poker up his bum and tell him next time it's going up his jap's eye!!
No seriously, go see a solicitor, they'll be able to advise you on what course to take.
Good luck, I know exactly how you feel, apart from my ex has decided NOT to work so he doesn't have to pay for his kids.
2006-09-25 22:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its wrote down, take him to court and let him tell the judge why he is not agreeing to the ordwer and maybe alittle jail time will help him remember to pay the next time -- and if its not written down get a lawter and make that happen then repeat the steps from the above statement
2006-09-25 23:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋