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please need help?
my girl left me after almost three years and i need to know the best way to get her back, forget about her, or im thinking about killing myself that one seems to be the easest way what should i do and how can i do it im 19 but that girl was my everything and a guy that i thought was a friend put so many lies into her head she would not beleave my if i told her anything i hate that ****** and i want to end my life. she was the best thing since jesus made thes earth but i want to be with her and no one else
2006-09-25 21:10:35 · 7 answers · asked by dieseldick3408 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
be honest and talk to her if she will not listen than it was not meant to be with the two of you and you need help if youa re thinking of killing yourself she is not worth that and you will see later tant it is true
2006-09-25 21:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by dee d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off death is forever, it will come soon enough so you do not need to hurry it along ! Second after three years you're girl friend has feelings for you, you just need to give her some space and do not be to pushy that will just drive her away. And stop talking about killing yourself, It may seem like a desperate time right now but I guarantee you things will get better !
2006-09-25 21:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by g_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really heartning to read the depth of love you have for her as well as the importance, let me say this nothing in life can be achieved by giving up, is she going to be richer because you are not around, she as well as the world is going to loose a person who can love soo truely & deeply.
You are 19 and there is a whole world left to explore & discover, maybe you were un-lucky with her but i am sure there are other door's open for you just that you need find them, and with you whole career & life before you I don't think you'll take time to find it or even lasting love and peace.
All the Very Best!
2006-09-25 21:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by poloneck20 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
FORGET about killing yourself because if you do it will not take away your memory of her -get up each morning and start a new day-You believe in Jesus then let him give you the strength you need to make it through this rough time in your life! Who knows maybe he has someone else picked out for you or some other plan for your life-would you destroy that? LIVE and you will be happy again -maybe not with her-but happy anyway!
2006-09-25 21:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop that crap abt suicide. Give her some time to think abt wat ur friend told her. There's no relationship without trust. I must admit she shud have believe you instead of someone else but sometimes people just believe anything and sometimes later they realise their mistake. If you die, you wudn't be there to see her realising.
So, be patient and courageous and wait for her and if she doesn't come back, move on. And yes, the best thing Jesus made on earth is life. So many people comes in and goes outof our life but eventually the one destined for you will stay. That's the beauty of life.
Cheer up.
2006-09-25 21:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
PLEASE LISTEN TO ME!!! You can email me, and I'll help. Please don't make such a terrible mistake. My Everything ended his life 4 months ago, and the pain it has caused is beyond any words can express. He thought I was ending our relationship, but it wasn't so. You do not want to kill yourself, you just want the terrible pain to go away. I don't know exactly what your pain feels like, but can only tell you that it's probably kind of like mine in some ways, except I know for certain I'll never get him back. The first thing that happens when you are faced with losing someone is you kind of panic, and the threat of losing them has a habit of exaggerating all of the good stuff, and you don't think about the negatives. Your relationship was not perfect, but it's natural to look at your life and your plans like they are going to be in them. I know she's special to you, and there may be some things about her that you feel like you couldn't replace. I have emailed you, and I hope you'll contact me. Don't make a decision you might spend eternity regretting. IM me, OK? You need to remember, although you were having problems, I'm sure she cares about you, and I'm betting there's some other people that would be so hurt if you made this terribly bad decision. You can get past this. I'll help if you let me. I'm including a link that was really hard for me to send, but I think you need to see, in black and white, what could happen. Oh, by the way, you'll notice it doesn't say anything about me....his parents didn't understand how much we loved each other, and hated and resented how close we were. They were such fools that they refused to listen to me when I begged them to help me save him, and yet, somehow, thought they were hurting me when they didn't include me in his arrangements, not realizing the fact that I was the one begging for arrangements and plans up to the morning of the day that I found his body. But, the funeral was their arrangements to make...they were too stupid to come get him when they could have saved his life - it was hard for me to even believe that they thought I'd fight them about them taking charge of his funeral. It was private, just as it should have been. I certainly wouldn't have been there to give them someone to try to shift their responsibility and guilt onto. I mention all of this because it's not uncommon for people you love to not only be hurt by your action, but it leaves that person alone and in pain, and other people can be so short sided and vindictively selfish. But, my point is also this: They were so selfish and mean that they would not accept my offer to pay for his proper burial as I knew he wanted it, and too cheap to pay for it themselves. So, they cremated him....the last thing he would have ever wanted. Are you aware of all they put the body through when someone ends their life? Please don't make the ultimate bad choice and perhaps have to stand by and watch aweful things happen, to you and ones you love....and have no control anymore. You have all the control in the world as long as you'll hang in there, and stay here, OK? Please let me help. I'm really easy to talk to, and, by the way, not a doctor..My user name comes from a song by Cracker
2006-09-25 22:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by drbernice843 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That girl is not your life. Live life, move on, and go ahead with your other plans.
If you don't... and whereever you will go without letting that go, YOU'RE A LOSER!
2006-09-25 21:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by Bummerang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋