Hi, I just want to ask one thing---why a male on net can’t be only a good friend? Whenever I try to make good friends on net; after just 3-5 minutes of chat suddenly boys want to know my cell no. or my pic though I have never used fancy, luring or seductive language. I thought, net is truly an innovative medium to find out good friends but my experiences proved it wrong. Why a male and female can never be only good and true friends without any physical interest?
2006-09-25 19:12:51 · 12 answers · asked by littletales 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can find them, it just takes time. And keep to your method of not using sexual language, even if they do, just ignore it.
I had an internet friend on here for over 2 years before I moved and we lost track of one another, and it was one of the most - well, pure - friendships I've ever had, if you can use that word. If they are interested in you as a person, it can happen. I have many male friends IRL where there's no funny business going on. You just set your boundaries and keep them firm.
Good luck.
2006-09-25 19:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't be friends on the net because you are not meeting or talking to the person in a day-to-day manner. You usually can't see the person's normal facial expressions and mannerisms. You can't tell a stalker from a policeman. People can and do make up all kinds of things about themselves. A 20 year old guy may really be
60! It is not safe. MANY are on here for sex.
Don't try to make friends on here.
2006-09-26 02:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can. If you are looking on yahoo chat rooms or myspace, you will run into a bunch of losers who can't find a girlfriend (much less keep one). Look for more intelligent guys if you don't want the whole animalistic female hunt manuever taken on you.
2006-09-26 02:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by wolfgangmeyers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you haven't been trying hard enough. There are more not so nice people here than good ones. But you do find a handful worth talking to. Try some more.
2006-09-26 02:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are are some males that are looking for more than a friendship and just conversation here.
I keep things as general as possible.
If there is a friendship possible, than that would be nice.
They have there lives and I have mine.
I just like talking to others and getting to know what they think.
2006-09-26 02:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It goes back to nature, they say its nature for men to find as many mates as possible and the most doooo!!!!!! But dont give up... I was the same way you are, just looking for friends, and finally ive met alot of new and friendsly (nonsexual talking) people!!! Goodluck
2006-09-26 02:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by busybody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i have the same problem, for years.. and years I try to look for genuine , good and true friendship but never met
2006-09-26 02:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, they want to know a lot about you. Maybe interest for who chat with you and want to be your friend, or maybe other. But it's just my opinion.
2006-09-26 02:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Nataline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not all guys are the same, I'm sure you'll find some that are looking for the same thing you are.
2006-09-26 02:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz you'll never get to know his/her true self if you weren't able to meet him/her.
this is the sad thing about the net. you have no idea whether he/she is lying to you or not...
2006-09-26 02:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by sterling 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋