She will not tell me or my 2 ten year old children whats happened. We all still love them and her family very much and have been left bewildered and heartbroken, all. I just can't let go with out knowing whAT WOULD CAUSE HER TO WALK AWAY FROM OUR ENGAGEMENT WITHOUT EVEN AND EXPLANATION. She won't even speak to me or my kids. This has been the hardest thing I have ever faced and I have faced much. I never had to trust and love anyone more than her. Help me Please My situation is actualy worse than I have said hear.
2006-09-25 19:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by James M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe she doesn't know or she has too much guilt and shame to say. I wish you all the best and I hope you know that for your kids sake you must put on a smile and have a good attitude. People do crazy things that we have no control over. Even if you were to blame, she did not have it in her to stick it out and make it work. You are better off to know this now than to find it out later. I am a firm believer that things happen for a reason. Someone out there would feel very lucky to have you and your kids. Start looking for that person.
2006-09-25 19:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Candi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she will not speak to you or the children then i would say dumping you was the best thing she could have done for you and the kids instead of marrying you settling into a family life then doing it the hurt would have been much greater for all involved i do not know why someone would behave this way just be glad you found out now instead of later. Time will heal the pain and heartache Good Luck
2006-09-26 02:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why you don't value your life and your children's lives enough to want a woman who doesn't do what this lady has done.
Doesn't sound like a very strong relationship and communication must suck.
2006-09-26 02:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is so lucky woman to be loved by your generous love. Look after yourself and kids, check yourself if you said or did anything upset her, wait and see, she will be back
2006-09-26 02:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry me
2006-09-26 02:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by mansongirl17us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she runn off cause she didn't have a good reason why she wanned to leave u
2006-09-26 03:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away.....
2006-09-26 02:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋