How can I tell my friend that his wife is my lover?

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Answer 1

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Just lie to him. Say he should start looking around. If his wife feels the same about you, she'll give him a reason to start looking... most white women plot this way. It's in their nature.


PHANWA IN THE MACHINE

Answer 2

You asked how can I tell my FRIEND that his wife is my lover?
Answer: You've already crossed the line, and at this point, you'd probably be better off to leave his wife, flee the country,change your identity and hide forever.
You and his wife by marriage may not survive the results of his finding out. If you had to mess around, why would you choose his wife in the first place? There's plenty of fish in the sea. You apparently have chosen the wrong one. People get seriously hurt or life ended over situations like this one. So whatever you choose to do, be prepared for the consequences, because of the guilt, you won't have a fighting chance for your defense. So tell me, what you think?

Answer 3

I can not believe you would say my friend he may be a friend to you but if his wife is your lover then your no friend to him. Don't tell him end it now and stay away you have broken all friendship rules and do not deserve to keep him as a friend but why hurt him by telling him.Although you might do him a favor by telling him that way he can haul out all the trash at once his whore of a wife and his so called friend

Answer 4

You might want to give his wife a chance to come clean with him before you open your mouth. Other than that, there really is no right time to tell someone something like that. You can be prepared for a lot of drama and possibly the end of your friendship.

Answer 5

My best friend married my ex-husband....yes you can figure that out??? I found out the hard way,,lies,,deceipt,,betrayle,,,that tore my world and my life into something that thank god is better now,,,but it hurt. Let your woman tell him....on her own. Then when he comes to you be prepared to handle reality..I hope he is not an angry person,,ie....no weapons,,,no previous criminal record....and Ihope he has a full deck of cards (upstairs). If you are in love with this woman you must move forward to reality and deal with the affair. If you feel that its just the sex, and there is no relationship potential then leave it be and do not ever mention it,,,either one of you. Eventually if it is just sex, know that it will end sooner than later. If it is love then know that what I said before you must persue the truth and reality for the both of you and her husband.

Answer 6

...you both are worse than dogs and need to be tortured until you die in the sight of her husband ...

You are eventually going to pay the high prize anyhow ... on a day when you expect it the least - with no-one to help you out.

If I were you, I`d rather commit suicide, because your presence on earth will remain a stumbling block to your friend, his wife and your wife (if you are married) as well as there relatives ... the same accounts to your "lover"

and anybody who tries to justify an adulterous act like this, needs to be treated the same as such dogs !

Answer 7

Wow, some friend u are. Why don't u and his wife tell her husband together and be prepared for s**t to hit the fan.

Answer 8

Just so ya know.. IF he doesnt kick her out.. she's gonna stay with him. Why he would keep her.. I dunno. But you will be 2nd choice.. when he decides he dont want her anymore. Of all the women out there.. you chose her.. why? You suck. Since you arent really a friend anyway, why not back off.. stay away from both of them.. FOR GOOD, and let them try to have a marriage. She's a tramp.. but he dont need his life ruined over it. GO AWAY.

Answer 9

If your having sex with somone elses wife, you r not being much of a friend to them anyway. Tell her that she has one week to tell him or you will.

Answer 10

just tell him..that his wife is your lover..ask him if you could share the bed together all three..