Why is it that, you hear of so many women of all different ages go from having someone reall good, too someone that has no life. Or even worst, someone who has been arrested for drugs or on drugs. I've seen so many women since i've been divorced go for the guys that have no job, no vehicle and are just plain zeros.. I'm asking this question because i was married for 10 years with 2 young children, divorced and she took ten steps back instead of 10 steps forward!!!!!
2006-09-25 18:02:33 · 11 answers · asked by take-it 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunately some women loose a lot of their self steam when they go through a fail relationship and they stick with the first man they meet because they don't feel like they deserved any better, on the other there is a lot of women who think that they could change or help a man who is in "trouble" without realizing that they don't want to be help, what can I say we were raise to nurture.
2006-09-25 18:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by rucrazy? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just read the following from a question I asked ealier (see my profile to view responses)....it really does explain a lot about what women want and why they do what they do....
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Men fantasize about women in sexual situations with themselves and other women. Women, on the other hand, fantasize about men being attentive to them. Am I right, or is it just me? I get turned on when a guy seems "into" ME [not my vagina]. That makes me REALLY h*rny. Imagining a hot guy banging my brains out does nothing for me. Imagining a hot guy gently caressing my arms and neck while whispering flattering (not offensive and disrespectful) things in my ear totally makes me wet. This is why in the movie "Something About Mary", Stiller spanks off before his date with Mary,... so he can focus on her and not sex, as he knows this is the best way to "get" the girl.
Now, having said this.... Why then do so many men complain about not getting enough 'tang if they're not willing to play the part of "Mr. Romance"? Why is that word so offensive to men? It's not gay, it's what gets you laid. It's not jumping thru hoops, it's a "natural dance".
If you want a freak in the bedroom, you need to be a considerate gentleman with a delicate touch when it really counts.
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So, money and looks will often take a back seat to kindness and gentleness especially if she has been abused and neglected much in the past.
2006-09-25 18:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nobody Special 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say for me my ex go for better like I did too. Some stress - desperation and low ethic. Many women just have big bad mouth when they get older nothing to offer. Many of women we just treat to good and didn't want to see how bad they are. Maybe this is some ge even of life.
2006-09-25 18:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because some of these women get tired of the security of what they had and go for something different. Call it boredom.
2006-09-25 18:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many loose there self esteam as well lack of morals when they inter into a different relanship thinking the grass is greener on the other side and it isnt . my opion?
2006-09-25 18:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
often times women still struggling to release things from the past are not able to release baggage fully and so sometimes end up in rebound type relationships---they have to realize(the women) --that they are special--empowered and strong--oftentimes when they are strong and ready to go on---they usually attract a good reliable partner------------------remember you are what you attract
2006-09-25 18:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, The gals are going to have a ball with you! Don't you know by now, it's all your fault! Your the male!
2006-09-25 18:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some from good to worst, but some from worst to best too, depend on their level of knowledge
2006-09-25 18:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always has something to do with THE past.
2006-09-25 18:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do woman do anything?
2006-09-25 18:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋