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2006-09-25 17:07:06 · 11 answers · asked by ME! Who'd ya think? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
when she asks...
2006-09-25 17:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm praying for you, it will be problematic yet i imagine you want to be truthful and tell her she would p.c.. up on it in a lengthy time period in existence in case you do not. How would not Jeanie like grandpa? Or with the DNA testshe can get a replica of that for the reason that its her dna examined ( probable at like 18 although. ) Jeanie changed into probable threatened beaten and sexualy abused through her father without caution and she or he's frightened of him. make certain she is danger-free there and would elect an order of safe practices hostile to him from each going round you all. Are jeanies mum and dad nevertheless at the same time? Jeanies mom needs to point blame on anybody else yet who's the single - ones somewhat responsible of the crime. Being truthful and allow you to recognize daughters counsers to extra ideal help her to boot as you all being there for the different. Heather
2016-11-24 19:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope other pregnant couples read your story and decide to get married to the fathers of their children before they are born illegitimate. Tell your daughter the positive truth beginning with information she can understand at her young age now. Keep telling her the truth as she grows up without bad mouthing her biological father. You know her birth is not all his fault. You chose to screw him. What's troubling is that you didn't learn anything from your first relationship, you have now compounded you problems with relationship number two and bastard child number two. Lady, and I use the term loosely, you're going to have to deal with two children that disrespects both fathers and their mother. Why don't you start doing this properly and marry the man you are now with, or leave him and marry your daughter's biological father before you add the third bastard to you wretched life?
2006-09-25 17:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on what there is to tell, and how old she is now. If he is someone you would rather not have her exposed to hold off until she has a firm understand of things in her world. If he is aware of her and has a right to see her the sooner the better.
2006-09-25 17:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should answer little by little Kids all questions when she asked you about her step dad tell her your step dad Loved you and her so much that he wanted you to be apart of his family Just like you do about the birds and bees .
When your child ask or says something about the diffrences. You can say Do You know something Daddy picked you and I to marry him and be in his family because he loved us so much.
Then if she asks about her Bio-Dad
Her own bio-dad though he loved her couldn't take care of her at the time. When she asks be honest. just at her age level. Trust me all kids ask if there adopted or not . also don't ever dump on her bio-dad it will make her long for him more.
2006-09-25 17:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by dianehaggart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As SOON as possible!
Dont let her grow up in a false childhood. That would hurt more than when she is young. If she is still young, she will not understand so you can make her understand, and she wont ask questions later.
2006-09-25 17:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by jrpx14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I just read the comment from Good_old_bastard and have to say....What planet are you from? I am so far from being a femminist it's discusting, but that comment you made was truly 18th century. Come alive in our time sir!
2006-09-25 17:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i put myself in ur daughters place..& if the present father has given me all..i would never want to know whos my biological father...its easy to giv birth but the one raises has all the rights
For me to live i would want that caring hands of a father to hold on for support when life gets rough..not bothering to know who ****** my mom
well if the daughter has no father..& the one whos responsible for her birth & is not worth as that dignity of a father better declare him dead..so that the daughter never feel the hurts of her mom..well as to teach ur experiences u could explain things to her on moral value...after understanding the childs mental & emotional strengths...
best wishes
2006-09-25 17:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to break it to her is gentle, but all at once. No beating around the bush. Just say it. Expect her to get mad. Give her time and if she doesn't mention it again, bring it up in about a week. It's a lot- she'll need time.
2006-09-25 17:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by yo yo grl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
any time just let her know all along no big deal wait till she 20 and she may get upset
2006-09-25 17:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started telling my daughter in little bits... you know gradually when she was 9yo. Her dad died when she was 5mo and was raised by her step father thinking he was her dad
2006-09-25 17:09:43 · answer #11 · answered by Sandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋