2006-09-25 17:00:08 · 43 answers · asked by Popcorn Playa 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
And don't say keep it in my pants its a little to late now. The one good thing is I just got tested and I'm negative on everthing. PHEW!! But what do I do?
2006-09-25 17:03:12 · update #1
And don't say keep it in my pants its a little to late now. The one good thing is I just got tested for STD's and I'm negative on everthing. PHEW!! But what do I do?
2006-09-25 17:13:17 · update #2
HEY MATE, I'M NOT GOING TO SAY KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS, AS SOME PEOPLE CLEARLY CANT READ WHAT YOU WROTE. LISTEN, YOU NEED TO CALM DOWN, YOU NEED TO EXPLAIN YOUR SITUATION TO BOTH GIRLS, I'M SURE THEY WILL FIGHT BUT THEY WILL NEED YOU TO HELP THEM THROUGH THERE PREGNANCY'S. I THOUGHT HAVING ONE GIRL PREGNANT WAS HARD, YOU HAVE 2, GOOD LUCK MATE AND CONGRATS... JUST EXPLAIN YOURSELF, THATS ALL YOU CAN DO
2006-09-25 17:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Justin 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You are taking the first step in admitting that you are the father of one child and maybe another. Sit down with both girls and and explain what happened (not necessarily together). I would assume that you probably weren't seriously involved with one of the girls if not both. If this is the case then they should(should not will) understand and they may have had other partners during this time also. If this is the case I would definitely insist on a paternity test. Of course, you will have to pay child support to both women, unless you want to completely terminate all parental rights and that only happens if the women will allow it. Everything will work out in the end. Somehow it always does.
2006-09-25 17:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by a1dermommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When both children are delivered have a paternity test to make sure they're your children. You can't do too much until they're born.
The other, more important thing you can do, before you discover that another one is on the way, is just being a dog. Be a man and be responsible about your sex life. Make sure you and your partner (singular) have safe sex and that both of you are on birth control. There is nothing sexy or appealing about a Baby Daddy. Be the guy that a woman is proud to bring home, not an indiscriminate sperm donor.
2006-09-25 17:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, admiting that your a dog is the first step. Now, its going to take you becoming a man a taking care of the for sure child you know your going to have. Third step finding out if you have another one on the way. Fourth if you are have a second one well..... i hope u have a job if not two because im sure one of them will be slapping you with child support. Good Luck!
2006-09-25 17:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Aquafina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you've just been shoved straight into fatherhood. This will teach you to stop being irresponsible. You are now tied to these women forever because you fathered a child with them. Be responsible and help support these kids. You don't have to marry the women but support them in any way you can. Next time, save the sex until you're married
2006-09-25 17:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your zipper in the lock position unless you are using the restroom . . . take responsibility for your actions. Paternity tests are available and keep in mind, she did not get pregnant by herself.
Do not lie to either of these girls -- it will not accomplish anything except anger and perhaps a desire to take further action by them that might cause you more grief than you have. Also -- all of you need to get tested for STDs and HIV . . . they have been with you and that means all your partners you have had. Same for you -- get checked out and cut the garbage about lowlife reputations -- all of you need to step up to the plate here and hopefully everyone will get things worked out.
Know what condoms are?
2006-09-25 17:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by joyann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ya already no the mistake you made by not having safe sex. but deciding on the right thing to do is the whole point now.if there is doubt in your mind with either yes get a test. now its time to take responsibility and take care of these babies. they didn't ask for two parents to act irresponsibly.you need to be the hero here and step up and take care of this.no matter what its your flesh and blood and your still its father.good luck be strong.
2006-09-25 17:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by lnay69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up and be a man. Make sure you get paternity tests to be sure that these children truly are yours. if they are, then you should do your best to support them financially. Even if you don't want a relationship with their mothers, you should try to be a part of your children's lives. Every child deserves to know their father and you should try to change your ways a little to provide them with a positive influence. In the future I would recommend using a condom??
2006-09-25 17:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by ljv1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be a man and fix what u have done if they r both pregnant welll then u have to support both babies if only one is then u have to support that one and yes it is to late to keep it in ur pants ur right but if al this turns out in ur favor seriously be a lil more careful with ur u Know what wish u luck
2006-09-25 17:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by la colombiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow buddy. I would suggest that you get a good paying job and always ask for a paternity test. And be ready for "Baby Momma Drama".
And next time, use a condom...was already have to many kids on welfare, you better take care of these ones since it was your mistake.
2006-09-25 17:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a paternity test when the babies are born. If you are the father, step up and pay support and be as involved in those children's lives as you can be because they need a father.
And either stop ho'ing around or get a vasectomy.
2006-09-25 17:05:45 · answer #11 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋