my daughter of 28yrs old left her fiance,fell inlove with a man over one weekend. she up and moved away. im lost as we were close. her boyfriend changed the cell phone number. i dont even have her address to write her. im missing my grandbaby. i cry alot theres nothing i can do. i dont have a car.a year ago i lost my relationship over my daughter thats how much i loved her. i dont know how to handle it.any advise?
2006-09-25 16:59:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel for you, contact some of her friends to see if she has called them and left a number, Do you have any general idea where she moved, if yes, and she does not call soon, contact the police and ask them to check on her?
I can't even imagine what you are going through, I have a grand baby that I see almost every day and if I suddenly couldn't see her my heart would break also. I hope everything turns out well for you.
2006-09-25 17:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control other people. This boyfriend sounds like bad news.
You can't always get what you want.
However, this is your drama. You write the story line. You must determine what is value in your life.
If she doesn't want you around, it is her loss. If you need support, call a hotline or get into a group.
Some of it may be your fault, but you can atone for that. Do what is necessary and do something special extra for them, even if it's simple.
Sometimes, if you are strong, if you feel, if you are going to be really alive, you just have to put your heart on the table and give other people the chance to stomp on it.
Often, they will, because we live in a mean world. There are reasons for that, it is not your fault.
You're not alone, you can do it.
Just be strong.
2006-09-26 00:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jeremy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I have been crying about my little grand daughter is moving away with her mom. I spent the week end with her and crying my eyes out. I will pray for you to get contact with your daughter again. She will call you soon. She misses you too. Take care sweet Grandma. Keep your faith. Try to keep yourself busy doing other things that you enjoy.
2006-09-26 00:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private investigater or do a people search. Honey, if you and your daughter were close,she's going to contact you eventually. Chances are this man is calling all the shots and those kind of men, don't want family to interfere. If you are worried, find out the name of this man and do a background check on him. It's worth it, and it'll give you some insight as to what his intentions are. You know your daughter better than any of us, if this is completely out of character for her, trust your gut and go find her.
2006-09-26 00:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear I agree about praying to the Lord that he will keep your daughter safe and the baby. The Lord will never let you down in your time of need. He will tell your daughters heart what to do. He works in mysterious ways.Don't give up hope. You will probably see her very soon. I will pray for you and them also.God will give you the strenghth to cope. He is there for you, all you need to do is ask. God be with you and the children.I hope my prayer did the trick. Trust in the Lord. and he will per-------forms miracles. Please excuse the performs . My kitten just walked across the keys.God Bless.
2006-09-26 00:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately thier is nothing you can probably do at this point as far as getting her to come home. Do you know that she is okay? Either way you can always fall on your knees and pray for their safety and ask God to watch over them and to convict her heart of how bad she has hurt you.
2006-09-26 00:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Shaney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋