Men fantasize about women in sexual situations with themselves and other women. Women, on the other hand, fantasize about men being attentive to them. Am I right, or is it just me? I get turned on when a guy seems "into" ME [not my vagina]. That makes me REALLY h*rny. Imagining a hot guy banging my brains out does nothing for me. Imagining a hot guy gently caressing my arms and neck while whispering flattering (not offensive and disrespectful) things in my ear totally makes me wet. This is why in the movie "Something About Mary", Stiller spanks off before his date with Mary,... so he can focus on her and not sex, as he knows this is the best way to "get" the girl.
Now, having said this.... Why then do so many men complain about not getting enough 'tang if they're not willing to play the part of "Mr. Romance"? Why is that word so offensive to men? It's not gay, it's what gets you laid. It's not jumping thru hoops, it's a "natural dance".
2006-09-25 16:57:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you want a freak in the bedroom, you need to be a considerate gentleman with a delicate touch when it really counts.
2006-09-25 16:58:25 · update #1
DB, almost? Please help me know what I missed.
2006-09-25 17:04:18 · update #2
oh, my bad DB. but you get my point.
2006-09-25 17:15:05 · update #3
DB, I believe you. I know that not all men are scum, just a lot of them are.
2006-09-25 17:48:44 · update #4
DB, I believe you. I know that not all men are scum, just a lot of them are. You just make sure you stay the way you are for your girl and for your sexlife.
2006-09-25 17:49:24 · update #5
Touche!!
2006-09-25 16:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You almost had this right
It is True that Men and Women Think differently much the you describe. However in the Movie Something about Mary, Ben did Not Spank off to be more attentive on The Things besides sex, He spanked off so that he Could Last Longer and not just last 1 Minute :-s
2006-09-26 00:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by D B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh most definitely do I agree with you..it's the attention and sweet nothings in your ear that really matter..more so than the sex. Woman want to be loved for being themselves, not a sex symbol. I must say I fantasize in the same sense as you, any guy can be into your vagina, but what's important is that the are "into" you..
2006-09-26 00:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by mystery_lvr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women want to be cherished. If you spend time and talk to them, you are more likely to GET one. Men are easy starters. There's a running joke that the only thing you have to do to get a man excited on a date is just show up. Frankly I kinda like those odds!
2006-09-26 00:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I highly recommend the book The Story of O. It will take that arm caressing thing to a whole new level...
A billion satisfied readers CAN'T be wrong!
2006-09-26 00:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by Trixie D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right on sister! I agree with u. Unfortunately, some men need to be taught the art.
2006-09-26 00:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Amen honey! Tell it like it is....but tell it slower. I'm not quite sure the men are going to understand. Something like this maybe:
Men + Romance = turned on women, turned on women = sex!
2006-09-26 00:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Too many people put it all on sex..true commitment is about RESPECT about who you can stand from day to day who you can talk to and then ask a question to and appreciate their answer without going...You have got to be kidding me!! I have only been married 18 years but they are the best of my life My husband respects me...from the day we met
2006-09-26 00:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by cjmac 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aint too bad that most guys don't know this??? Hope you answer some of these guys who ask questions of "Why is my wife cold?" Save this, and paste it in those questions, huh????
2006-09-26 00:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wake up, men think diffently to women, all men want to do is get laid. if you dont understand men think differently and therefore have different agendas then you are kidding yourself.
2006-09-25 23:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by don 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋