I have a friend who told me this
" I cant stop thinking about you and when Im making love to my girlfriend, I think of you and wish I was making love to you"
I froze and didnt know what the he*l to say! How should I have responded to that? geesh
2006-09-25 16:48:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should have said "It's OK, it happens to most guys at least once".
2006-09-25 16:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Duncarin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why can't we ever think of the right thing to say at the right time? The comment was made, you can't change that. It's done. Don't even think about it for another second. If you do like this friend, just keep in mind, he may be saying the samething to another girl down the road when you are his girl frined. Your better than him. Don't throw away the friendship, but if he keeps it up, stand up for yourself, laugh at him and tell him he wishes he could be that lucky
2006-09-25 23:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by JackieH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your response completely depends on how you feel about him. Either you feel something could happen and you'd let him know, or you'd delicately tell him that you just don't feel the same way about him. Let him know you're flattered and value his friendship but wouldn't be interested in a relationship.
Either way, he's not being fair to his girlfriend and should come clean to her-- you should probably tell him that much as well.
2006-09-25 23:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sam D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that depends on what you think of the person. If you like him in that way, then you could say, "You are with someone right now, you should be thinking about her, not me. If things don't work out between you then we can talk about things, but I do not want to let you cheat with me."
If you don't like the person that way, "I'm flattered that you think that way of me, but I think you shouldn't be thinking about me when you are with her. You need to stop and think about what you are doing here. If you really don't like her then you should not continue being with her. But as far as we go, really I think we are better off being just friends."
2006-09-25 23:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Dewdrop5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about catching someone off guard. I think a proper response would have been "Just because you are thinking of me, doesn't mean I'm feeling the pleasure"....but only if you like him in that way. Or if you don't, simply say, "Just don't scream out my name...I don't want any part of your sick fantasy". He'll get the point. Or if you want to joke around with him, say "Now that's a weird way to get two women into bed together".
2006-09-25 23:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, thats a new one. I feel sorry for the girlfriend because he doesn't seem like a good man. I mean, men probably do that all the time, but to admit it to a friend.....geez. But I would Tell him that is very flattering, but you didn't need to know that. It's not fair to his girlfriend.
2006-09-25 23:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"How dare you!" Then say , you need to keep your mind on the business at hand! If you were interested in his juvenile , half baked proposition, than you can tell him so. If you are not interested, than tell him you wouldn't be with him if he was the last man on earth!, or some other great put down. Good luck.
2006-09-25 23:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by stevensings20032001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wants you, but don't give in. If you give in then he'll probably just have sex with you and he'll leave.
And if he really wanted to be with you he would leave his girlfriend.
And I just thought, what if he is trying to break up with his girlfriend but he wants her to do the breaking up? So if he cheats on her with you then she'll most likely break up with him. Trust me it's not far fetched, happens all the time, with women as well.
You should tell him to leave you alone, I would have nothing to do with this person, because if he doesn't have the balls to be respectful and break up with that girl to be with you, then he's definitely not worth it.
2006-09-25 23:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm flattered and horny at the same time, but if you really wanted to be with me, what are you doing with her. I'm sorry but I won't continue to put myself through mindgames. I lioke you but not enough to compromise or settle for less. Adios or come over tonight for dessert. You have been a bad boy, bend over! spank
2006-09-26 10:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't respect you or his girlfriend if he came out and said that. If he cares for his g/f, then he wouldn't be thinking of anyone but HER when he's making love to her. And, if he cared for your friendship, he would've kept that to himself. That was not cute, flattering, or respectful, and I would have told him so.
2006-09-25 23:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know whether this friend is the same sex as you, but either way, remind him that he is in a relationship and being unfair to his girlfriend by telling you this.
2006-09-25 23:51:57 · answer #11 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋