would it be a good idea to prepose to her since she has been non stop talking about it for weeks (she is 6 weeks pregos) and i want to marry her, im scared but i want to make sure that when the baby is born he/she comes into a family... ... is it a good idea when she is pregos aor should i wait? & how should i do it if i should? im 20 (same justin as before)
2006-09-25 16:47:54 · 18 answers · asked by Justin 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i want to marry her because i love her and she is pregnant with my child, i have been thinkig about it for about 8 - 9 months now... before we even had sex, and before my un born child... should i pop the question?
2006-09-25 16:56:03 · update #1
I JUST RANG HERS AND MY PARENTS AND GOT THE ALL CLEAR...
2006-09-25 17:04:59 · update #2
Well if you really do wanna marry her and ur sincere bout it and ur not just doing it because she wants to and u wanna do it for the baby if n e thing do it for urslef because u love her and want to be with her the rest of ur life if u do decide to do it do something spontaniouse be creative figure out what she likes what she doesnt and make it a night to remember GOOD LUCK
2006-09-25 17:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by la colombiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man, step up to the plate, and marry the girl now. Get the support of both her parents and your parents so that you have a good support network for help and advice. Take responsibility for what you've helped create. I'm not saying it'll be easy, most parts of life aren't. You'll barely have time to adjust to each other before the baby comes along and another big adjustment. But sometimes it's easier that way - you won't have time to get into some unexpected routine that'll be harder to deal with down the road. Sounds like you love her and want to marry her, so why wait?
Good luck!
2006-09-25 16:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really do love her. you should only pop the question if you're sure that it's because you love her and would have married her anyways, and not because you think your child should come from a family (although it's good that you think that too.) I say propose, but make sure she understands that it's becuse you love her, and you would have done it rather she was pregnant or not. Then, assuming she says yes (i'm sure she will, you seem very sweet.) when you two talk about the wedding, you two should talk about if you want to do it before the baby or after. Congratulations!
2006-09-25 16:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by fireballfanaticgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are ready then ask don't do it because she is pregnant with your baby so it because you love and care for her and want to spend the rest of your life with her. You can ask while she is pregnant and have the wedding afterward the baby or you can jump on it and get married before her tummy gets bigger, but I suggest on waiting just to be sure. Good Luck and Congrats.
2006-09-25 16:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's in all probability not pregnant...i would not hardship. her boobs are in all probability nonetheless growing to be, and consequently they're delicate. And abdomen aches could be led to from something- nutrition, tension, etc. unquestionably, I in many situations get a delicate abdomen discomfort after intercourse. i don't possibly be attentive to why in spite of the indisputable fact that, yet its truthfully not because of the fact i'm pregnant (i'm on the pill).
2016-10-01 09:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by milak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A baby can have a family, without the parents actually married. Marry for love, not out of obligation... God knows parenting is hard enough.
2006-09-25 16:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure your marrying her, because you truly love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her, or are you doing it more so because you will have a child together. She probably will assume that your doing it because she's pregnant and she might say no, because she doesnt feel your doing it forr the right reason i would say no
2006-09-25 16:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by AQ_shortie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you had sex before marriage and got her pregnant, its your responisility. You should ask before the babies born, that way she has something to look foward to when she in the pain of childbirth.
2006-09-25 16:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Millie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only ask her if you were planning to before she got pregnant. do it for the right reasons. I got married when I was pregnant, but I had ben engaged for sometime before the pregnancy.If you do, I would recommend to wait until after the birth, so your girl can feel perfect on her big day, not pregnant, trust me, it limits her gown choices greatly
2006-09-25 16:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
CAN YOU BOTH TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES OR IS THE FAMILY HELPING OUT? AS LONG AS YOUR NOT RUSHING INTO THIS BECAUSE OF THE BABY. IT'S BETTER TO WAIT IF THAT IS THE CASE THAN TO GET A DIVORCE ON DOWN THE ROAD. LOTS OF 20 YEAR OLDS HAVE MADE A GOOD MARRIAGE. YOU HAVE TO DECIDE THIS FOR YOURSELF. WISHING YOU THE BEST.
2006-09-25 16:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋