Did you have hopes and dreams of where you would be at this point in life, but you are not just not there, but very far from it? I am 22. I should be living on my own, with a successful home business, a sexy a ss girlfriend, and on my way to starting my entertainment career. But instead, I still live with my mom, who just told me I have until March to get out, I have been unsuccessful at starting any home business and the one I just signed up for doesn't show a lot of promise, I hate my minimum wage job,I have no girlfriend, and can't find any fem lesbians that like fems, and I am forced to sleep on a small toddler bed for the next two weeks. Also, to make matters worse, I have a terrible cold!
2006-09-25 16:41:04 · 6 answers · asked by indrep33 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Deep down I think you know your mom is right. You can still meet your goals on your own, but it's just going to take longer & be a little harder, but it may be the conditions you need to get to where you ought to be.
You also seem to have lumped multiple goals on yourself. On a limited schedule (March) you will want to prioritize your goals, putting a place to live at the top of the list. To live on your own you will need a regular income so running a start up business, or working in the entertainment business may not do that for you. So you may need to keep that job a little longer, & maybe supplement it with some part time work in the entertainment business until you make enough connections to make the break into full-time. Put the girlfriend thing on the back burner for now, you've got enough on your plate.
Hope you feel better soon!
2006-09-25 16:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To dream is free but to make it happen it takes money and guts.
I moved out pretty late age too. It's a cultural thing so I respect and abide with it. My career was flying high when I finally decided to do some adult responsibilities for myself. I dropped everything to see what was like in the other side of the world by myself. I flew to America and built my own life. It was great in the beginning but years later I wish I was home and realizing, there's no place like home.
If you wish and hope hard enough, it's going to happen. Start saving and be practical, you will achieve them. So don't feel bad do something.
I hope you feel better.
2006-09-25 23:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 22 you are still very young...your frontal lobe is still not completely developed so you are still not even a full fledged adult.
You make the life you want...it doesn't come to you with your hopes and wishes.
Check out Dr. Wayne Dyer's books and/or tapes or listen to him and many great others on hayhouseradio.com. YOu will learn how powerful you really are and what you can do, and you are the only one who can, to get everything you want...and more than you can even dream up yet!
All the best
2006-09-25 23:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Greanwitch 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take two pills and call me in the morning. as for the life thing.....you can fix that. get the ball rolling move out and get on your own get a better job I am where i want to be not where i wanted to be. I'm comfortable in my life thank you.
2006-09-25 23:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It always is.....roll with the punches and be thankful for what you have!! You could be a lot worse off.
2006-09-25 23:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by wandering_canuck 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's your choices?
2006-09-25 23:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋