me and my old lady was apart for 4 months and i found out she was pregent. we wasnt in a serious relationship at the time but it grew into one. we ended up having twins, then i found out later on that another girl was also pregent and she had twins they are mine and my old lady said that if they were mine then we will be done but the thing is is that she is pregent again and this one has maybe a 60/40 chance of being mine meaning it a slim chance it could be someone else child i told her i would be with her no matter what because we do love eachother and have been involved in a relationship for about 10 yrs but its been serious for the last 2 well most of the last 2. but now am i wrong if wait to tell her about my other twins or wait to find out about this baby and then tell her cause it will come out but now why say its over if the twins are mine which they are but not if the one she carries now is not am i wrong for waiting to find out and then decide i think not
2006-09-25 16:28:08 · 15 answers · asked by dat nigga los 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry...I couldn't see anything past the "my old lady" part. Try keeping your pants on and buckled. That might work.
2006-09-25 16:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow...tough situation. Move to Utah and have everyone live under the same roof, you are all sleeping around anyway, why not make it one big happy family? It's legal there. And next time? USE PROTECTION! Oh, almost forgot....better get another job too. I'm a little tired of picking up the tab on other people's illegitimate children!
2006-09-25 23:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the truth always comes out no matter what,you can wait,but look if you both were sleeping around are you sure you love each other,maby you both should move on but be apart of the children life,look at your self and tell her the same,making love to the person you are in love with is special,and when you make a baby that is love
2006-09-25 23:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by mensert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with them all you dirt bag. Why didn't you marry the women you impregnated before the children were born? You now have a brunch of bastards that had nothing to do with your selfish choices you ignorant turd. You better take care of each of your children in the high manner they deserve. If you don't, you are going to burn in Hell after your children desecrates your grave. You don't deserve to be called a man or even a human being. Shame on you! And shame on the women who laid with you.
2006-09-25 23:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to learn what a condom is or get a vesectomy. and the amazing thing is, you say this new baby MIGHT be yours, you stay with someone who whores around on you?
where the hell are the morals? were you taught none?
please stop having sex until you are fixed
2006-09-25 23:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My, my you have been a busy guy. I'm sorry but I can't help you with this one...it is way too messed up for me. You are way out of my league.
2006-09-25 23:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is, hope you have a couple of good jobs! why in the hell didnt you ever use a damn condom? and dont tell me it broke. you are wrong when you take your d#$k out of your pants
2006-09-25 23:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by melinda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is a lot to handle, but tell her as soon as possible. so you can get past it and move on.
2006-09-25 23:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by tm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER EVER deny your own children tell her, and then she can decide to grow up..
2006-09-25 23:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is tie a knot in it!
2006-09-25 23:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋