I notice that quite a few of the women I end up liking are straight. But before I realize that they are straight, I think that I pick on on Gaydar that they are into me. I am usually wrong. I need to get my Gayday fixed. Also, these are usually situations where I have to see the woman repeatedly. Don't get me wrong, I have no intention in trying to turn a straight woman, if a woman is straight, she is straight,just as I am gay and can't be turned straight. Most of the time, these women never even know that I liked them. I'll find out they're straight before I approach them. But has any lesbian ever been in this situation, and how did you get over it?
2006-09-25 15:23:07 · 13 answers · asked by indrep33 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
honestly i didnt want to turn them gay either but it was rather exciting and maybe in the back of my mind a challange to see if they would go for it...no not a challange but it was very very excitiing. and girl iv probabaly been with more striaght woman then lesbians go figure. good luck
2006-09-25 15:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im gay and its hard to see what people really are. I fell for a straight guy the other night, he told me he was gay and he hadn't came out of the closet yet. He was cute so I made out with him. The next day he bitched at me for doing what I did. He's freaking confused and doesn't know what he is. I am tired of one night stands and just want a stable relationship. I got over him quite quickly because he is a moron, I can do better than someone like that. I will find the perfect guy one day and same to you, you will find the gal of your dreams, just keep looking and avoid the phonies as much as possible.
2006-09-25 15:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going thew a very similar situation right now the best thing to do is give it some time and space i know this seems impossible but it's almost like getting over a bad brake up baby
2006-09-25 15:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by amanda b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, not fun hey...
I fell for to 2 of my friends.... not at once :-) And that was pretty crappy, i felt really embarrassed because i got the wrong idea, never saw them again coz it was all too weird. But like any other relationship, gay or straight you get over them in time......
2006-09-25 17:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by Eddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can"t relate to that sistuation but I have been trying to get with a woman and they ushally take me as straight . I am finding it hard telling others that I am into that. I need to open up a little and stop hiding my feelings.
2006-09-25 16:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my best friend "came out" some years ago----she was in love with her best friend all through High School and could never reveal herself. it was terribly painful and hearbreaking.
When she did " come out" everyone thought she and I were a pair ( which we were't, not 'that' way ) and I didn't care what they thought; I stuck by her side, but watched almost all her lifetime friends judge her, abandon her and treat her like a freak.
She is still gay, I am still straight, and we are still best friends after all these years.
2006-09-25 15:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lola 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but i could tell u about a straight women who fell in love w/ a gay women and she still can't get over her and can't yet and YES either way baby its hard love in general is just dam hard.
2006-09-25 16:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by djonecat@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I was in the situation. I told the person, she was flattered and then I backed away, we're still friends and all. But, I had to move on and she accepts me for who I am and I who she is.
If you need anything else, ask!
2006-09-25 15:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i sorta kinda was in tha situation but the girl was bi supposedly she knew i liked her too she would tease me and flirt all the time just to find out she had a husband. and she would rub it my face that she was married i liked her but realized she was just a teasing ho... sorry about your situation but be glad u find out before you make your move
2006-09-25 15:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by vgoddess69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep this happened to me with my ex... She also actually had a boy friend... oops ; ) but we ended up together and were together for a few months... But just recently broke up. I am attracted to straight girls but not strong feelings like i had with her. If i tell them i think they are hot they usually ask me if i would hook up with them. and they are usually pretty happy with themselves lol...
2006-09-25 15:33:13 · answer #10 · answered by *Aus*Surfer*Girl* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋