2006-09-25 15:04:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
It certainly wasn't healthy, but it happened and was beyond your control.
But believe me it does't mean you will be gay, in fact if you have lived this long and haven't felt any desire to have sex with another male, then there is no reason that you would now want too.
Rape is something that was done without your consent, so you had no control over it, now that you have control of your life and sex life there is no reason why you should want to suddently become gay uless you want to be.
2006-09-25 15:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to hear that you were sexually raped and molested as a child for more than 10 years by gay sex perverts. as the others said, you are not necessarily gay but if you were conditioned to enjoy gay sex, you may be gay and it would take a lot of therapy to throw away this conditioning. medical studies show that persons who are sexually molested as a child have a high tendency to become sex molesters themselves as adults. as an adult, you are no longer a victim. assert your liberty by charting your own destiny. you can choose to be gay or straight. you can be a molester or a good person... your choice. seek therapy and/or counseling. of course, the road to your complete healing may be long and arduous so i wish you all the best. cheers!
2006-09-25 23:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't already know you're not gay you might already be, but if you're really not sure you should get with a female you like (and who likes you) and find out. Honestly homosexuality is mostly genetic but the predisposition can be affected by experiences and environment, but not dictated by them, so be honest with yourself.
2006-09-25 22:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by dingbat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, unless you want to be gay. Don't listen to perverts. They'll try to turn you out. You don't have to be gay unless you want to. The queers claim they are born gay. This is just an excuse to justify their reprobated mind. I was molested as a kid and I told someone I thought I could trust. Hell! he tried to make a queer out of me. He was a queer and I didn't know it. You'll never be totally over this experience but you can learn to handle it.
2006-09-25 22:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by renaissance man 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It dosen't make you gay it make the person who raped you realy gay.
2006-09-26 19:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by xkevinx911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will probally turn out gay sorri dude
2006-09-25 22:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by guess what? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm gay! So I sure hope so!
2006-09-25 22:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by Ericelephant 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only if you ponder it.
2006-09-25 22:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by sirus3810 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋