When I was growing up I had nobody to look towards. In my family I had no girls my age to look towards for any sort of guidance and I had no sister so I didn't really learn how to act 'like a girl'. So instead I just sort of grew up into a tomboy instead. When I'm joking around I guess I end up saying hurtful things instead, and because enable to really survive in my school I ended up in a lot of fights so I'm a pretty decent fighter too. I also have a sort of attitude problem, in which when I'm pushed too far I have a 'black out'.
The thing is is now I'm an adult, I can't act like that in society. I've always tried to be fair and nice to everyone but it just doesn't work out, especially with people I'm trying to be nice to. So what do I do? I've tried everything from not talking, not joking around, and trying my hardest to be the 'right kind of person' that would fit in society. I'm so confused, mom always sends mixed messages too. Help me!
2006-09-25 15:03:06 · 3 answers · asked by winds_of_justice 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
quit making excuses for yourself! no matter what happened when you were growing up, you are an adult now and you know right from wrong! do unto others as you would have them do unto you! its as simple as that and you know it!
2006-09-25 15:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm your mind, try to quit thinking about the Problem, be nice and just live each day without internal question talk.
Try to enjoy each moment, notice the Good things around you, have no pre-concieved notions (thoughts) of "whats going to happen" so on.
Just be nice and enjoy each day the best you can.
2006-09-25 22:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by maguyver727 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself don't try hard and be as you know is the right way to behave. be honest, trust-worthy,respectful and friendly
2006-09-25 22:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by true-mysteryfrom chinese wish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋