Can you just go to a gay club, and not leave with someone? Or is it manditory you leave with someone? (to have sex)? I am only 16, and just wondering.
2006-09-25 14:48:43 · 13 answers · asked by Starcraft 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Most people don't go to gay clubs to leave with somebody. When I was in my late teens and early twenties I went to clubs an average of 5 nights a week. I have only only "picked up" somebody 3 times.
It isn't as if I didn't have offers. It certainly wasn't as if there weren't VERY attractive offers. It just wasn't what I was there for.
When a gay man wants sex it is easier to just find the sex than to go to a club, pay a cover, try to see people through a haze of smoke, have to yell at each other to be able to hear, and then decide from the people there who will be the one.
Gay sex is quite easy to find... the clubs can be an interesting place to find it if that is what a person wants to do... but not the best or easiest method.
I went to the clubs for the attention, the social interaction, the dancing, and to people watch. I'm sure many others were there for the same reason.
2006-09-26 02:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by Dustin Lochart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No of course not silly it's not a manditory thing it all depends on you if you feel u want ot get busy then go for it but if not just have fun... i go to gay clubs to dance and meet new and intresting people not for sex.
2006-09-25 14:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 14:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not true. You can actually go to a gay club and not have to "hook up" with someone and have sex. You can leave with someone just to get out of the club scene and chat, but you don't have to have sex.. plus come on.. if you say no, you mean no. they gotta respect that.. its not all about sex.
2006-09-25 14:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by carebearashee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you got any dumber you would have to ride the short bus!!A gay bar or club is just like any other club or bar, the only difference in the two is the people going in .Here is something you gay bashers dont know,,Alot of straight women go to gay bars because they can relax and dont have guys bothering them all the time
2006-09-25 18:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's what most people go and expect at the clubs but not a expectation from everyone
2006-09-25 16:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, you will not be aloud to leave unless you have hooked up with someone. One time during what I like to call my 'bad hair' period, I was locked up in a club for 2 years. You also have to leave with some 'as pretty as' or 'prettier' than yourself.
2006-09-25 14:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
no, you go there to have fun, but if you wanna hook up, then that is always an option at gay clubs
2006-09-25 15:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've yet to pick anyone up at the club, so...guess it depends on who you are and where you go.
2006-09-26 13:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it doesn't always lead to sex. They're not allowed to force people to have sex if they don't want it.
2006-09-25 16:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋