My boyfriend always goes out and have drinks with his guy friends. However, a few days ago he said he was going to smoke with his guy friends at another guys house. I called him while he was there and he comfirmed that he was at the guys house and it was just guys there. I went to go and visit a friend of mine which is a girl and my boyfriend was there. I tired not to get mad and later I was drunk and broke things off with him. We ended up back together and yesterday we went to school together. At school he said hi to every girl basically there. He even hugged more than three girls. Also yesterday, he told me he was going to have some drinks again. I dont trust him now. Everytime he said hi to a girl I couldnt help but think he probably lied and drank with her too. He has lied on other ocassions too. Now everytime he leaves I think hes going to cheat or lie to me. Ive tried talking to him but I dont know. What should I do?
2006-09-25 14:32:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
so
2006-09-25 14:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by ilovedogsandcats17 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old is your boyfriend? If he is under 21, finding an honest guy is going to be like finding a needle in a haystack. It sounds bad.. but the odds are against you.. those odds being that adolescent teenage boys hormones are like a nuclear bomb waiting to explode.. they can't get enough attention and they can't stop exploring the unknown.. every girl is a mystery and dudes want to explore and learn what is different about different personalities.. eventually all of this will cause the guy to learn more about himself and the kind of personality he best gets along with, but on this path to that point.. there is no telling how many girls hearts he will break.
2006-09-25 14:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously getting back with him was a little too early. girl, you just learned that your man can lie and in fact, he did. it's hard to gain the trust back again now that you lost it. you need to drop this guy and give yourself a break to think things through. i know it's easier said than done but it's better than feeling insecure every time he says he is going to drink. see, if you said you dont trust him. whats a relationship when there's no trust?
2006-09-25 14:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by mizs_sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoah you called him at the guys house and asked him if any girls were there?!!? he had to confirm this? girlfriend you didn't trust him in the first place. maybe he was at that guys house then got pissed off when you called and went to that girls house maybe knowing you would go there. maybe if you weren't such a possessive freak guys wouldn't lie to you.
how would you feel if you went to a friends house a he called you like that to check up on you to make sure you weren't with any guys??!?
2006-09-25 14:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should break up. If you don't trust him you will never be happy. Eventually you will not trust him to go anywhere alone. You can always find someone who would enjoy conversations, movies, dinner, music and much more with you and not with his buddies as often.
2006-09-25 14:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by timidlady2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is challenging enough to be in a relationship without trust, but on top of everything, you two cannot even openly and communicate-this is a formula for disaster. you have no basis for a relationship. click the dust off your prada heels and move on, sista!
2006-09-25 14:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his sorry butt, he's a liar and obviously if he had to lie then he is hiding something. find someone else to spend your time with. he'll regret it in the end
2006-09-25 14:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by mimi7434 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys need to seriously stop drinking like now!
2006-09-25 16:03:40 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say call it quits. Is he worth the stress?
2006-09-25 14:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him and fast
2006-09-25 14:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him NOW!
2006-09-25 14:35:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋