I'm gay and there is this guy I like, what should I do?

Question

There is this guy I like, but I think he is straight, how do I tell him I'm gay and that I like him

Answer 1

I guess u can , but what happens if he starts to act like a jerk and wants nothing to do with you?

I mean yes u can tell him ur gay but if u tell him u like him he may not like it, because u know how straight guys can be when they're around gay guys( they become jerks) and they sometimes want to fight if they think u like them because that means u and others will think they're gay.

So as much as u might not want to hear this( and I only say this because I don't want u to get ur hopes up) u may want to skip the part about u liking him( unless he too is gay)

Good Luck I hope this work out in ur favor, and if it turns out they he is gay I hope u and he will become close and enjoy ur time as a couple =-)

And if not Hey it's big world and there are plenty of gay guys out there who will be more then happy to be with u

Answer 2

Well it depends do other people know your gay and (I just saying ) if you were straight would you tell a girl that is by that you liked her! I don't think so and don't tell people right away that you are gay because most people can't handle it and will automatically say that you like them So be careful!!!!!!!!! best of luck

Answer 3

Well, first off - if you suspect that he's str8 what's the point in even pursuing ?!... and telling a str8 guy, that you like him (and ur gay).. MORE than likely isn't going to go over well. Some str8 men take GREAT offence to being hit on by another guy - because they may think, "Why would they even ask me?!.. do they think im gay".. and in turn, they feel that their sexuality is being questioned. And no str8 guy likes thats. Its a guy thing

Answer 4

Find out if the person you like is Gay or not before you get your feelings or your self hurt, then make your move if he is gay let him know that you would like to call him or go to the movie or even out for coffee.

Answer 5

Never leave a rock unturned. Which is to say that it is better to reveal yourself now and keep a friend or lose a friend over a lapsed call.
Even if he never wants to be gay, he can still be your friend and that is where you have to be straight about you to him the sooner the better/

Answer 6

Don't tell him that ur gay, just go to a mountain to heard sheep and u guys will get real close and maybe u might even get to fish.lol

Answer 7

I think you should show him. I mean there is nothing wrong with being gay.

Answer 8

if he is straight then your best leaving him alone....just keep liking him, if you make a move on him or tell him he may back off....keep him as a friend....or you could tell him and see how he reacts......good luck

Answer 9

first i think u should try to get his atention and not be gross just be a nice friend if hes not gay than just be his friend.

Answer 10

talk to him
may be he is not gay